How can two introverts date without being awkward? What should two introverts pay attention to when dating?

We all know that dating between boys and girls is very particular, and there are many skills and precautions. Different people will have different situations when dating. Some people are more introverted and will worry about having nothing to say during the date, and they will be afraid of awkward atmosphere, etc. So how can two introverts date without being awkward? Let's take a closer look!

How can two introverts date without being awkward?

1. To avoid embarrassment, choose a good date location

If the date location is well chosen, the date will be more effective. Especially if you are both introverted, the choice of date location is even more important. Since both of you are introverted, it is not suitable to date in a particularly quiet place. Otherwise, if you choose a quiet place, you may not know what to say when you look at each other, which is too embarrassing.

So it's best for you to choose a busy place with many people, such as a shopping mall, so that you can talk while walking and it won't be awkward. You can also choose to go to an amusement park and play the games there together, so that you don't have to talk too much, and you can increase the chance of intimate contact and enhance your relationship. You can also choose to climb a mountain, so that you can chat while enjoying the scenery, and you can hold hands when you climb a steep slope.

2. To avoid embarrassment, prepare topics in advance

Since you are both introverts, it is best to prepare topics for each other before meeting. Before you meet, you should have learned about each other's hobbies through WeChat. Then you can prepare what you want to say based on each other's hobbies. If you don't know about them, you can look up information in advance and get a general understanding. In this way, when you meet, you will have something to talk about and it won't be too awkward.

So if you want to avoid being awkward and having nothing to say, you can prepare the topics you want to talk about in advance. You can make a list, list the topics you want to talk about, and make some simple notes. You can familiarize yourself with them before the meeting.

3. To avoid embarrassment, be proactive

Since you know that you are introverts, then when you meet, everyone should speak actively and respond to what the other person says. You can start a deep conversation about a topic, and don't just touch upon it. Only when everyone is active and proactive can the atmosphere of the chat become lively. If only one side is enthusiastic, the atmosphere will definitely become awkward!

Therefore, introverts should be more proactive so that they will not be too embarrassed when chatting. Be cheerful and don't be afraid of anything. There is nothing to be afraid of, it's just an ordinary date.

What are some tips for dating two introverts?

1. First, understand the other person's preferences

If you want to date him, you must understand his preferences, do some research, and see what type of movies he likes to watch. Just like Lu Zhanbo in Love Apartment asked Lin Wanyu to watch a science fiction movie, but he didn't know Lin's preferences in advance. The final result is definitely a failed confession.

2. Dress

Clothes make the man. When you go out with a girl, her first impression of you is very important. Your clothes should match your personality and highlight your strengths. Good clothing can make a girl have a deeper impression of you and make her think you are mature and steady.

3. Date Location

Consider asking the other person out. If the girl is a lady, a fresh, artistic, or business person, afternoon tea is a good idea (you can arrive early and send a text message to the other person saying "I'm here" after you arrive); this way, the girl will feel that you respect her and her impression of you will deepen. Places like zoos, parks, botanical gardens, and KFC are not suitable for first dates!

4. Funny conversation

On the first date, the atmosphere is very important. This will make both of them feel relaxed. As a man, you should be confident enough to take the initiative to bring up the topic, talk naturally, treat her as your friend, and chat like a friend. Not too enthusiastic, not too serious, and not too calm! Don't show off your knowledge reserves. She doesn't need an encyclopedia. Don't over-show her works. She won't come to see you pretending to push! Find as many topics as possible that interest her and guide her to talk more. You can also talk about some interesting topics, such as gossip, constellations, travel, black humor, etc. If you feel embarrassed occasionally, you can smile.

5. Praise girls

When you are on a first date, compliment your partner. Pay attention to the girl's clothes (girls usually date boys). When you meet them, remember to compliment them: "Wow, you look so beautiful today" and so on. You can also compliment the other person's hairstyle, clothes, temperament, etc. The other person will be very happy to hear it and it will deepen your good impression.

6. Romance

Under the premise of conditions, it is easier to impress girls by creating some romance and surprises appropriately. But remember: romance does not mean high consumption! Many boys think that the first date costs a lot of money, and romance costs a lot of money... In fact, you don't have to spend so much money. For example, before eating the onion army, Taobao will choose to buy some small gifts of about 10 yuan, which also surprises the other party. Of course, you can also shoot a short video about her in advance and enjoy it with him. He will think that you value her more.

What to know when two introverts are dating

1. Prepare in Advance

The preparation mentioned here is not too troublesome. It is just a simple understanding of each other's preferences. This is very important. Two friends who have just met and are going on a date as lovers must have a minimum understanding and knowledge of each other. Knowing what the other person likes and hobbies is the premise to avoid embarrassment during the date.

If you find a common hobby, then you have something to talk about. If you don't have a common hobby, you still need to find a topic to talk about. This requires understanding what the other person likes and what they like to do. You can find this from Moments and Spaces, so I don't need to go into details.

2. Date Location

The date location is very important for both men and women. This is the key factor to avoid embarrassment on a date. Generally, the date location is chosen in the park or near a relatively quiet scenic spot. But here, since it is a date between two relatively introverted people, I suggest not to choose these relatively quiet places.

If two introverts go on a date in a quiet place, they are not talkative, and the quiet environment will not make it awkward. So I suggest choosing a place with more people, where there are more people and things coming and going, and it can also divert the attention of both parties. Once there is no topic to talk about, it will be very convenient to talk about people and things happening around you.