Will boys flirt with beautiful girls when they see them? What is the mentality of strange men flirting with girls?

For girls, when they are approached on the street or in certain occasions, they are still a little happy in their hearts, because it can prove that their charm has been noticed by someone. Of course, you should also pay attention to your approach. If you approach normally and you are not bad looking, the girl may give you their contact information directly. If it is a beautiful girl, many boys generally do not dare to approach her actively, for fear of making a fool of themselves.

Will boys approach a pretty girl when they see her?

Men are born lustful, but due to personality, courage, face and other reasons, some dare to approach and some don't. If the above concerns are eliminated, I believe every man will take the initiative to approach beautiful women.

There are several reasons why I don’t approach you:

1. Afraid that others will call you a hooligan, that would be so embarrassing.

2. When your lover is present, you don’t dare to approach and strike up a conversation.

3. When friends are around, I am afraid that they will say I am lustful.

4. The other party is accompanied by a man and is afraid of being beaten.

5. Not good at expressing myself and don’t know what to say.

6. Psychological inferiority complex, thinking that women are too good and that they are not even close to them.

7. There is an age gap between you and me, and you are afraid that others will say you are old and not serious.

What is the mentality of a strange man chatting up a girl?

To be honest, if the boy does not do anything extreme other than chatting her up, the girl will still have a little expectation of being approached by a stranger.

Girls like to be approached by strange boys, probably because it satisfies their psychological needs.

1. Being praised

Usually boys use nice words like "beautiful girl" or "little fairy" to chat up girls. This time, the words sound particularly pleasant and satisfy women's vanity.

Especially for some mature women who are no longer young, they need to be praised more.

2. Value recognition

Girls need to get the embodiment of their value from boys. For example, if a girl is always pursued by many boys, it reflects the value of the girl. In our understanding, popular things are good things.

Tips for picking up guys

1. Don’t let your eyes wander

Girls are already not used to being approached by strange men, and a boy's wandering eyes will make girls feel uncomfortable and even fearful.

When a boy's eyes are firm, the girl will get the message that this boy is safe and trustworthy. At this time, the majority of men don't have to worry about the girl backing off when they approach her.

2. Don’t talk nonsense, it’s better to have a specific topic

When a guy is trying to strike up a conversation with a girl, he may be so nervous that he doesn't know what to say. Don't ignore this. Not only are you nervous, but the girl will also be on guard against your nonsense: What is this guy doing? He is such a mess. If a guy really wants to chat with a girl, he must find a certain topic to show his high emotional intelligence and talkativeness.

3. Don’t move your hands and feet

Boys may be more intimate by putting their arms around each other's shoulders when chatting, and there will be more physical actions. When chatting up girls, boys must not use their hands, and always show their gentlemanly demeanor. Even if you are chatting happily, try not to have any physical contact with girls. On the one hand, it is for a better chat, and on the other hand, it is to avoid being called a "hooligan" by girls and being beaten.