Why some boys don't know how to chat and flirt with girls? What should I do if boys don't know how to flirt with girls?

Boys who don’t know how to seduce girls can only work hard to make money. When you get promoted and get a raise, and become a general manager or a CEO, even if you are a piece of wood, there will be girls who will be attracted by your aura of success and fall for you in your suit pants. At this time, you can marry a beautiful, rich and beautiful woman and reach the peak of your life!

Why some boys can't chat and flirt with girls

In fact, it has something to do with your interpersonal experience.

1. If you have many interpersonal relationships, it is easier to understand people's psychological activities and communicate easily. If you have few interpersonal relationships, you will not be clear about the rules of communication.

2. Being timid and unconfident. Girls are also easy to talk to. Talk more with each other. Learn about each other's interests and hobbies. The places they like to go. You can get to know a person better.

3. Secondly, it is also related to your emotional intelligence. You can read more books on improving emotional intelligence. When you speak and act, you should be more considerate of others and praise them more. There will be no problem with basic communication. When you praise others, you must be sincere.

4. Actually, I don’t like the term “boys flirting with girls”. The word “flirting” itself carries a sense of being careless and frivolous. If you really want to understand a person, you should get to know the other person honestly and seriously, and have the right attitude first. It’s not about learning a certain skill and doing whatever you want. That’s easy to go astray. So it’s better to correct your attitude and improve your appearance, words and deeds. Only in this way can you attract girls.

What to do if a boy can't flirt with girls

Boys not being able to flirt with girls is as unsolvable as women not being able to breastfeed. This is a lack of innate ability, and there is no way to solve it.

Flirting is not a skill. Don't believe in the so-called dating training camp. Learning skills can only teach you how to kill a conversation with one sentence, and then kill it with ten sentences. The final result is the same.

You must understand the essence of flirting:

1. Flirting with girls is a kind of hormonal attraction. Some men are born with walking hormones, just like the hero Yang Guo. Once you see Yang Guo, you will fall in love with him for life! Even Li Mochou was overwhelmed by his hormones. Even if Yang Guo is wearing a mask, he can still charm everyone and bewitch girls. This is called instinctive attraction!

2. Picking up girls depends on appearance and physique. Handsome men have long legs, thin waists, broad shoulders, blurred eyes, and sweet voices. They have tall heights, strong or well-proportioned bodies, and moving faces. This is how appearance can pick up girls. They don't need to talk, girls are drunk, they don't need to tease, girls will have wild fantasies, they tell meaningless jokes, girls will laugh and scold, even if they betray girls, girls will still die for them.

3. Flirting with girls depends on the inner aura. Only by holding a superior attitude can you play the world. Yes, flirting with girls is a competition of aura between the two sexes. This kind of clearing the field is confident, experienced, and calm, and it is a natural and free and easy state of getting along with the opposite sex. People who flirt with girls cannot be flustered, cannot be eager and thirsty, and cannot kneel down and act like a licking dog. They are a little bad and a little elusive. In short, if the aura overwhelms the other party, then the flirtation will be successful.

The above three points are not learned. As for the idea that you can get girls if you have money, that is a false proposition. Money can buy pleasure, marriage, and a night of passion, but it may not buy admiration. What you get with money is transactions and sex, not love.

What is the most degrading behavior of a man?

1. The face of a villain

The most inferior man in the workplace is the one who flatters his boss and speaks sweet words to him, but looks arrogant and disdainful when meeting colleagues or subordinates, and will make things difficult for anyone who provokes him.

2. Being stingy and regarding money as life.

This kind of stinginess and fussing is most evident when it comes to dating. A friend of mine once told me about a weird boyfriend she had. On dates, they would just have a bowl of rice at most, and he would bring his own water when going out. He would even think a bottle of mineral water was too expensive and would nag her for half a day. So after dating for less than a month, my friend broke up with him because he was too cheap.

There are also some men who will keep clear accounts of the gifts they gave to their girlfriends or how much money they spent on their girlfriends when they are in love. Once they break up, they will throw the bill to the woman and ask her to pay it back in full.

3. Small-minded and suspicious

Some men are afraid that their girlfriends will cheat on them, so they often secretly look through their girlfriends' mobile phones, or even follow them directly. If they find any clues, even if she is just having a work lunch with a male colleague, he will question her endlessly.

4. Love to dig up old issues

There are also some men who lose their value in a way that whenever they have a quarrel with their girlfriend or wife, they will bring up old things, and they will describe every little detail clearly. It will be a headache if you meet such a losing man.

5. Being drunk

It is inevitable for men to drink when they have social engagements, but some men are born alcoholics. Once they drink, they will not stop until they are drunk. The most feared thing is that after getting drunk, they act crazy, swear, shout, hit people, open the refrigerator door to urinate, and all kinds of drunken appearances are really ugly.

6. Indecent behavior in public places

For example, some men smoke in public, spit, litter, and occupy seats on high-speed trains, which are all very cheap behaviors.