Why can't I be happy when I'm about to get married? What should I do if I suddenly regret it?

When you have been planning for a long time and are ready to marry your beloved, why can't you feel happy? Whether you are a boy or a girl, there will always be a little fear before marriage. Worrying that you have entrusted your trust to the wrong person is mostly a psychological thought of girls. What should you do if you are about to get married and suddenly regret it? Let's take a look!

Why can't I be happy about getting married?

From a psychological perspective, when you are getting married, some specific things may come to you and need to be solved, such as gift money, vehicles, procedures, wedding dresses, invitations, etc. This will be a little stressful and make people anxious and emotional. This is normal. At the same time, the anxiety that people are not aware of in their subconscious mind is actually because they are getting married soon. Although it is not only allowed to get married once, people don’t want to get married a second time, so this will cause pressure on people. Third, after getting married, you may no longer be as willful and free as before. Facing a new life and interpersonal relationships will make people feel at a loss. This is normal.

What should I do if I suddenly regret getting married?

1. Do you mean before getting the marriage certificate or before the wedding? You need to clarify. Usually we recognize the marriage as legally binding only after getting the marriage certificate.

2. It means that you are not satisfied with the other party, or the other party has done something that you cannot understand and is very sad. It is better not to get married.

3. Is it because you suddenly regretted getting married, or is it because you felt something special made you regret it? There is a big difference. It depends on the specific situation.

4. If you get married, every day after marriage, if there is something you are not satisfied with, you will regret getting married even more. Be careful.

5. It is better to regret before getting married than to regret after getting married.

Why don't you want to get married?

One is that they have not found a soulmate and are unwilling to settle for a lifetime. There are many possible reasons for this, some people "patiently" wait until fate arrives, and some even lose confidence in marriage and stop looking for it.

The second is the economic problem, especially in some remote areas where the economic conditions are not very good and the gender ratio in the region is unbalanced. Many boys cannot find women of marriageable age. If time goes on for a long time, it is also a potential factor that prevents them from getting married.

Third, people who are afraid of marriage or resistant to emotions, those with psychological problems and emotional disorders belong to this category. They just want to muddle through and it is best not to find someone who is living a good life with themselves. There are also people with this mentality.

The fourth type is the kind who are truly open-minded, do not take marriage too seriously, live a free and easy life, and it does not matter to them whether they get married or not. They are quite comfortable being alone. They are very independent and may not listen to other people’s advice.

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If you don't feel passionate even when you get married, then after you get married, you will face daily necessities and family matters such as children. Your life will become dull and the love between two people will slowly turn into family affection. You have to be mentally prepared. However, it is best for a girl to marry someone who loves you. In this way, even if you feel dull in your future life, at least you still have his love. A woman who can be loved by a man is the happiest woman in the world. Don't set your expectations too high. If you look around, you will find that there are more people who are not as happy as you are. So accept the current reality, adjust your mindset, and slowly experience the various aspects of life.