Is it necessary to cut off contact after a failed confession? How to take the initiative to contact after the cut-off

Is it necessary to cut off contact after a failed confession? For this question, most people would choose to cut off contact. Even if they don’t delete the friend, they will no longer contact each other through WeChat or phone calls, and then slowly fade out of the other person’s life circle. After all, it would be very awkward to contact each other again. However, some people still miss the other person even if they don’t contact each other. So how to take the initiative to contact each other at this time?

Is it necessary to cut off contact after a failed confession?

It is a very lucky thing to like someone, because many people can't meet the person they like.

It is normal to be rejected after confessing your love. The probability that she likes you at the same time is very low. There are always many rejections in life. We should get used to being rejected and accept being rejected.

Many people who have failed in their confession keep in touch, simply wanting to rekindle their past relationship.

There is always an ambiguous stage between them, and such a relationship is really meaningless.

If you can, be generous and be friends. There is no embarrassment or face problem. If you really feel uncomfortable, then slowly distance yourself, after all, time will dilute everything.

What's it like to lose touch with someone you love?

I peeked at her Moments countless times a day, watching her chatting and laughing with others, which had nothing to do with me. Finally, I couldn't stand it and deleted her. Unless I was busy all day long, I would listen to music, think about her, and look at her photos when I was free. I felt sad and upset when I saw her. I didn't dare to look at her because my heart was too painful and I felt suffocated. I didn't dare to write her name at all. If I wrote it accidentally, you would feel that the name was too dazzling, like a rope that could suffocate you to death.

I learned to smoke and drink, and I like them because they can numb myself. I often go to the places you used to go, sit there stupidly, looking at the places she used to go, take pictures with the watermark camera to record the time, and save them in my phone. I listen to the Night Talk column. I write a diary in my phone, all about her.

I would secretly design her photo as my phone screensaver. I would never go to bed before 12 o'clock at night. I would look at the starry sky alone, hold my left hand with my right hand, and then talk to her in my heart. I would stand far away from her building, look at her lights, listen to music, smoke, and drink beer. I would save the things she left behind.

I would save the Ao Da Miao emoticons she often used in my phone, but I never used them because they only represented her. I would apply for a WeChat account myself, and use that WeChat account to express my thoughts about her, and I would unscrupulously express my thoughts about her in the WeChat Moments.

You will keep yourself silent, not make friends, and only listen to music and drink quietly. Gradually, you will not feel the heat of summer, and you will not actively choose to avoid it under high temperatures, because I am listening to music at that time, and the high temperature is not important. And so on. Over time, you will develop a habit of loneliness.

I can do these things, but I don’t know that even if I miss you so much that my heart aches, even if I feel suffocated, I won’t cry.

How to contact after disconnection

You can start with the Moments, like first and then comment. After you know her recent updates, you can slowly send WeChat messages to resolve the awkward situation. After you’ve let go, you can make an appointment to meet up!

Of course, I don’t know why you lost contact. If your confession was rejected, then even if you get in touch, there will be little chance. If you lost contact after a breakup, there is still hope if you try hard.