What to do if you just got pregnant and don't want to be pregnant

When we successfully become pregnant, we should take relevant protective measures. If we don’t want a child for the time being, we can have an abortion by surgery or medication, but it is best to go to the hospital for an abortion and then follow the doctor’s advice to take care of your body after the surgery. Abortion surgery for women will have a great impact on their future conception. Abortion surgery should not be performed frequently, and it is better to give birth to the child if possible.

If you are planning to get married, and marriage is a matter of sooner or later anyway, and now you have a child and you want to keep the child, then propose to her quickly and arrange the wedding as soon as possible so that she doesn't have to bear the mental burden of being an unmarried mother and can keep the child. Getting married quickly is the top priority.

Nowadays, many people like to plan their lives and then implement them. Often, reality does not turn out as we planned, just like pregnancy and childbirth. Many people feel that the time is not right when they can have a baby, and when the planned time comes, they still cannot get pregnant, causing some regrets.

Many young people think that they should do their careers well first, and even for the sake of their careers, they keep delaying the issue of having children, eventually missing the best time and opportunity to have children. In fact, there is no need to do this. If you are not a DINK, then having children is a matter of sooner or later. It is better to complete this while you are young, which is also good for your physical recovery.

The arrival of every child is a kind of fate, and as his parents you should cherish it. When encountering such a thing, it concerns a life, so you must make a careful decision and do not take his life easily. Think about your beautiful future. It would be a pity without his participation.

If your girlfriend is not ready to spend her life with you, then she definitely does not want this child. Once the child is born, you will have an inextricable relationship with him/her for the rest of your life, so you have to make her feel safe, make her feel that you are the one who can stay with her for the rest of her life, and dispel her concerns.

If your relationship is not yet at the point where you can get married right away and both parties still need to consider something, then even for the sake of your child's future you should think carefully about whether you and your girlfriend are suitable for each other. Don't get married rashly on impulse. That will hurt both of you, and your child will be the one who gets hurt the most. If you bring a child into this world but cannot give him a complete family and happiness, then don't give birth to him.