For women, it is normal to experience pain during the first sexual intercourse, especially for virgins, because the rupture of the hymen will cause great pain. Of course, everyone's physical constitution is different, and the sensitivity of the body is also different. It should be noted that during the first few sexual intercourses, as a husband, you must be gentle and avoid being too rough. In addition, you must pay attention to the cleanliness and hygiene of the private parts. Girls should pay attention to the following points on their first night: 1. Pay attention to the hygiene of external genitalia On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash your vulva with warm water and a mild soap. Because of purchasing items for the wedding and entertaining relatives and friends, the newlyweds are busy and tired, and the smegma of men and vaginal secretions of women increase. If they are not cleaned, it is very unhygienic and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women. 2. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen After the hymen ruptures, there will be some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding. You should wipe it with a sterilized gauze or cotton wool. It is best to have sexual intercourse 2-3 days later to prevent the wound from becoming infected. If the hymen ruptures and there is heavy bleeding and unbearable pain, you should see a doctor. Reminder: Sometimes, because the female's hymen is too thick or the hole in the hymen is too small, or the man's sexual intercourse is rough, the hymen may be torn and cause heavy bleeding. In the most serious cases, not only does the hymen have a large tear, but the labia minora also has tears, leading to heavy bleeding. 3. Treat premature ejaculation correctly During first sexual intercourse, the man may experience premature ejaculation due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual failure. You should forgive this situation. It is not premature ejaculation. With the increase of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal. 4. Take contraceptive measures If a man and a woman do not want to have a child right away and do not take birth control pills, both husband and wife will have concerns, and the woman will be more afraid of getting pregnant. Therefore, her mind cannot be highly concentrated and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, concentrate their energy, and sexual life will achieve satisfactory results. 5. Close cooperation and mutual consideration When starting sexual life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman, whose psychological state is more complicated and she is a little nervous. You should ask your husband to be gentle, and if it doesn't work the first time, try a few more times. The woman should also actively cooperate, overcome tension and fear, relax her mind, and be sexually aroused quickly. The vaginal secretions are abundant and the lubrication effect is good, which can reduce pain during sexual intercourse and alleviate the pain caused by abrasions of the hymen. |
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