How do smart women manage their marriage?

Everyone knows that love is a matter between two people, while marriage is a matter between two families. Most people are very sweet when they are in love, but after entering into marriage, they find that marriage is not as beautiful as they imagined. Especially for women, they have to work, deal with some trivial matters at home, and take care of children. Quarrels between couples are inevitable. So how do smart women manage their marriages?

Managing a marriage is a science, it varies from person to person, there is no uniform standard

1. Complain less and be more tolerant. This is true for life and for my husband. If you are considerate of him, he will also feel your kindness; if you give him space, he will also give you more in return.

2. Have certain economic ability. A big part of the reason why men look down on women is because women have to rely on men for support. If a woman has a certain level of financial ability and can support herself, many problems can be avoided.

3. Be a charming and beautiful woman. You must stay beautiful to win a man's heart and make him stay with you forever, and your marriage will naturally last long!

4. If your significant other annoys you, think of him as a little kid.

You may think this sounds unconstructive, but you may discover the "lovely side" of the other person. Next time, when your husband is at home doing nothing and playing games on his phone, imagine that he is only 5 years old instead of a fat middle-aged man who has not yet taken out the trash, washed the dishes, or hung out the clothes. Then you won’t find him so hateful. When your wife doesn't turn off the lights, or buys expensive new pots and pans or new shoes, regardless of whether she spent your money or not, at that moment imagine her as a five-year-old girl, and you will think, "As long as she is happy,"

5. When buying a gift for someone, don’t buy something “you can use together” or something with “ulterior motives”

Normally, if the husband buys a dishwasher or an oven, his wife may be very happy. However, if it is a birthday gift or anniversary gift, she may not appreciate it. It’s also like a wife giving her husband a vacuum cleaner (with the purpose of asking him to vacuum more). It would be more thoughtful to give him his favorite camera or game console, because your gift expresses “I love you, but more importantly, I understand you!” It is indeed not easy for an old couple to please each other, but it is worth the effort precisely because they have been together for so long.