What should I do if I can’t get over the psychological trauma after an abortion?

For all female friends who want to be mothers, they do not want to see miscarriage happen. Because doing so would mean that I would most likely lose the opportunity to become a mother, which would be very sad. But in real life, there are many women who suffer miscarriages, sometimes due to accidents and sometimes due to physical reasons. So, how should a mother who has had a miscarriage get out of the shadow as quickly as possible?

I find it sad that in real life people tend to blame pregnant women for miscarriage. There is little difference between such thinking and brutal acts of violence. If we do a careful statistical analysis, we will find that to a large extent the husband's reasons may be the main cause of habitual miscarriage.

For pregnant women who have experienced miscarriage, the best prenatal education is to get out of the shadow of miscarriage. Instead of treating it as a regret and painful memory, it is better to consider the problem from another perspective, such as telling yourself that it was not the best time for the child to be born; or suggesting to yourself that the child to be born now is the best and healthiest.

In fact, many pregnant women try to think and act this way, and when they become pregnant again, they even walk with extra caution. I find it sad that in real life, people tend to blame pregnant women for miscarriage. This idea is undoubtedly a cruel act of violence. If we do a careful statistical analysis, we will find that to a large extent the husband's reasons may be the main cause of habitual miscarriage.

Of course, everyone has painful memories. No matter what the cause of miscarriage is, it will be suffocating for the pregnant woman. Some pregnant women are therefore trapped in a deep sense of guilt all day long, and the sense of loss and despair will be buried deep in their subconscious for a long time.

Pregnant women with a history of miscarriage may have experienced a spontaneous abortion without knowing it, or may have had an artificial abortion. In short, the anesthesia or bleeding process will definitely cause great damage to your health. In addition, some pregnant women believe that their bodies are already broken because of their history of miscarriage, so they become more uneasy when they are pregnant with their second child.

We must change this thinking from now on. In fact, miscarriage is not just a problem for pregnant women. Also, miscarriage is not a disease. In our country, 10% to 15% of pregnant women have experienced miscarriage.

I would also like to remind you that miscarriage is most likely to occur between the second and third months of pregnancy. When miscarriage occurs in early pregnancy, pregnant women do not need to feel overly self-blame or sadness. The main reason for miscarriage at this stage is mostly due to problems with the fertilized egg itself.

I hope that mothers who have really experienced miscarriage can get out of this shadow as soon as possible, and not blame all the mistakes on themselves. They should go to the hospital for a check-up in time to see if there is something wrong with their body.