Three ways for women to firmly grasp men's hearts after marriage

How to win your husband's heart after marriage? If you think that it depends solely on being "virtuous", you are totally wrong. If you want a man to be devoted to you after marriage, in addition to being gentle and virtuous, you must also know how to "seduce" appropriately. Now, the editor will give you some tips to help every woman gain the obsession of her husband.

Stay independent

A charming woman should be an independent tree, and her husband should be the big tree beside you. Whether you are a professional woman or a full-time housewife, you should avoid spending all day revolving around your husband and children. Otherwise, you will become a vine, tightly wrapped around him, and grow dependent on him. In the short term, he will certainly like your attachment to him and your lingering love for him, but in the long run, he will blame you for sucking his nutrients and holding him back, and he will wish you would leave so that he can grow freely.

Therefore, women need to have their own time, learn to give themselves space, and at the same time free up their husbands. The better a woman treats herself, the more her husband will care about her. Only by maintaining an independent and positive attitude can you exude lasting charm.

Smart women will definitely understand this. If you don’t want your husband to get bored, you must be independent yet rely on each other. Only then will your marriage last.

Many women after marriage, especially after having children, become so slovenly that people can’t believe they are two different people before and after marriage. The reserved, gentle, passionate and charming woman before marriage is all gone.

A smart woman should know how to apply light or heavy makeup, and know what clothes to wear for different occasions. Beauty is not the point; being dignified and decent is the prerequisite. If you often spoil your husband's fun, ruin his plans, and offend him, it will be impossible for him to be crazy about you.

In a harmonious marriage, sexual love between husband and wife is crucial. In sexual intercourse between husband and wife, the wife plays a very important role. Women's deliberate creation of attraction or guidance, which seems unintentional but is actually intentional, are important aspects of building a harmonious sex life.

Married women should not only dress appropriately in public, but also maintain their appearance at home. If a husband always sees a yellow-faced woman wearing loose pajamas and walking around the house unkemptly when he comes home from work, he will lose all interest in sex over time.

A smart woman knows how to release a little sexiness in front of her husband. For example, she can buy herself some sexy clothes and some flirting items to keep herself fresh at all times.

In addition, women tend to neglect the care of their private parts after giving birth, which causes the private parts to become loose after delivery and difficult to restore to their previous firmness. If these problems are not handled in a timely manner, they can easily affect the couple's life.