One move to see if she is a girl or a woman

Is your mental state still at the stage of a young girl, or has it grown into a mature woman as your physical age? Here are 10 psychological criteria for judging whether you are a girl or a woman. Let's see which ones you are still missing.

1. Emotional control:

Girl: When a girl is angry and unhappy, she will throw a tantrum like a child, screaming and crying capriciously, and her actions will completely disregard the other person's mood.

Woman: Although she will still feel frustrated and sad when she is unhappy or angry, she has learned to manage her emotions. She will sit down calmly with the other person and explain what makes her unhappy without losing her temper.

2. Your own value:

Girl: A girl always thinks she is a princess, so she thinks everyone should treat and care for her like a princess.

Woman: But a woman is different. Her mature mind allows her to know who she is and where her own value lies, instead of expecting others' praise or concern.

3. Importance of appearance:

Girl: Girls regard appearance and externality as their most important assets and values. She measures herself by her physical attractiveness and even sees her appearance as a tool to get what she wants.

Woman: A woman is different. She is very clear that her own value is far greater than appearance. What a woman values ​​is her inner self, regardless of values, talents, mentality, etc. Those are her most precious treasures.

4. The value of money:

Girl: Girls want men to pay for all bills, big or small.

Woman: A woman wants to be financially independent, especially when she is ready to get involved in a relationship. She also hopes that her partner has good financial ability, but she does not ask him to pay the bill. Instead, she hopes that there will be less financial worries in the future after they are together.

5. Establish your own mentality:

Girl: There are always too many dissatisfactions in the world of girls, but they like to compare themselves with others. However, when they find that they are not good enough, they take everything with frustration.

Woman: Women are different. They like to help each other and engage in healthy competition because they know the world is so big. The only person to compare with is their yesterday self, because only by comparing with themselves can they make progress.

6. Views on household affairs:

Girl: Girls think it doesn’t matter if they don’t know how to do housework, clean or cook.

Woman: A woman knows that doing housework is a way of taking care of herself and others. She also understands that when she enters into marriage and family, she will want to take good care of the people she loves most.

7. Views on relationships:

Girl: What a girl wants is attention. She wants everyone in the world to like and love her. She will even play with other men’s feelings in order to make others like her.

Woman: But what a woman wants in love is to be loved truly and faithfully by someone. As long as she is determined, she will give you her love wholeheartedly and equally.

8. Respect for the body:

Girl: The girl does not know how to respect her own body. She has not yet understood how precious her body and her heart are, and she does not know how to choose the right person to let him live in her heart.

Woman: Women know how to cherish their health and self-awareness, and regard their talents as their most valuable assets. Even when it comes to love, they start with the heart rather than the body.

9. What kind of person do you want to be:

Girl: The girl actually doesn’t know what kind of person she wants to be, nor does she know what she really wants.

Woman: But women will take time to think about who they want to be, as well as their own values ​​and ideas.

10. The long-term and deep vision:

Girl: Girls have short-term goals, such as wanting to be thinner, more popular or rich, etc.

Woman: As for women’s goals, they are often focused on self-pursuit and have a longer-term vision, such as how to become a good communicator, or the need to improve their emotional management skills, etc.