What does it mean when a woman can’t let go of her old love?

Women often yearn for a beautiful love, a warm marriage, and the happiness of growing old together.

However, the reality is not as everyone wishes, and there are very few women who are satisfied with their love life. Every woman has dreamed of or met her own Prince Charming, but in real life, the so-called Prince Charming that women desperately grasp often becomes a Chen Shimei. It is always difficult for women to accept the end of an unforgettable love or a relationship in which they have invested a lot of energy, only to have it end in failure. It can also be said that women are always obsessed with the love they have lost, and can't even let it go. The result of a woman repeatedly pestering herself can only be to sink deeper and deeper into trouble, suffering torture and extreme pain. So what does it mean when a woman is entangled in a past relationship and can't let it go?

First, it shows that the woman is too deeply in love

I don't say that their feelings are too deep, but that women are too deeply in love, because if two people's feelings are too deep, it will be difficult for them to break up. However, there are indeed many objective reasons that lead to emotional separation. No matter what, as long as a woman is too deeply in love, she will never be able to let go of the relationship. Women who are too deeply in love often find it difficult to get over the emotional pain on their own. For a long time, they cannot get over the memories or accept a new relationship. She needs external force to help her get out of her emotions.

Second, it shows that women are too foolish

Some people say that a woman in love has an IQ of zero. It does make sense. Women who are deeply involved in a relationship often continue with their own inherent thinking when the relationship changes, and are unable to reverse the sudden turn of love. She will stubbornly believe that as long as she gives a certain amount of love, the relationship will definitely be rewarding. She always blames herself for not doing well enough. Therefore, when faced with being hurt and betrayed, women never recognize the true nature of the matter, but blindly compromise and try to please others excessively, but are often not cherished. So, I can only say that women are too stupid and can't let go of things that they should let go of.

Third, it shows that the man is shameless and too scumbag

Besides women's own reasons, another reason why women can't let go of their feelings is the men's responsibility. There is a type of man who takes advantage of women's love and hurts women unscrupulously, and sometimes seems to be very good at pleasing women. The saying of giving a slap in the face and then giving a sweet date is often fully reflected in this type of man. The woman remembers his goodness, but forgives his bad deeds again and again. He knows that women understand women, and is good at taking advantage of women's weaknesses. When he has them, he has no scruples, squanders them wantonly, and tramples on their feelings at will. But when he is about to lose them, he begs for mercy and is extremely gentle, making women mistakenly believe that he treats her well and loves her very much, and that he just made a mistake in a moment of confusion. Therefore, women both hate and love, and are entangled and unable to let go, until they are covered in bruises and exhausted physically and mentally.

Fourth, it means that the woman has not reached the "Yellow River"

There is a folk saying, "Don't give up until you reach the Yellow River." Women often still yearn for the love they have lost, believing that emotional conflicts are only temporary and that men's mistakes are only due to their temporary infatuation and will come back after a while. This kind of woman is very much like an Ah Q and is very good at deceiving herself. In fact, she knows in her heart that it is impossible, but she still does not give up. Unless the man's choice has become a fact, she will probably wake up and become extremely sad and desperate. Otherwise, she will not let go no matter what.

5. It means that a woman has not met true love yet

The reason why a woman cannot let go of a relationship is that she has not yet encountered a more profound true love, so she is still indulging in past love, reminiscing and sighing. Although it is difficult for a woman to get over her previous relationship, as long as she meets true love, she can accept it, and will gradually put aside the old love, her heart will gradually warm up, and she will start a new relationship. The sign that a woman is starting over is that she can let go of the old relationship, and be more autonomous and independent in the new relationship, better able to grasp the skills of getting along with each other, and learn from past experiences and lessons. In the world of love, the more setbacks a woman faces, the wiser she becomes, and the wiser she becomes, the more beautiful she becomes.

Although the old love is beautiful, it has become yesterday. It is still okay to recall it, but you have to let it go. Only by letting it go can you easily start a new relationship, devote yourself to it wholeheartedly, and more easily gain true love. Never feel sorry for what you have lost. The only pity is that you did not cherish each other in the past. So, the next relationship will belong to you only if you can grasp it!