Is it okay for women to masturbate? Be careful of these 8 things

In China, a relatively conservative country, there are still many misunderstandings about female masturbation. The social culture itself's oppression and framing of women also makes many women appear "sexually apathetic". A considerable number of Chinese people still hold the view that masturbation is a perverted behavior and that sex is dirty. The lack of sex education prevents us from correctly understanding masturbation behavior.

Women who masturbate are not virgins

Many people mistakenly believe that women are no longer virgins after masturbation, symbolizing that their so-called pure hymen has been damaged. Damage to the hymen, especially tearing it, generally causes pain and bleeding. Although masturbation may sometimes cause some pulling damage to the hymen, rupture of the hymen due to masturbation is rare. What's more, there are many ways for women to masturbate, and it doesn't have to imitate sexual intercourse like men. Therefore, as someone abroad joked: the girl who masturbates is still the same girl.

Masturbating in marriage ignores your partner

It is generally believed that women do not need sexual intercourse after masturbation, and therefore become cold towards their husbands. In fact, female masturbation itself is a sexual behavior different from other methods such as sexual intercourse. It's like masturbation is a salad and sex with your partner is a steak. No matter who eats the salad, it won't affect his appetite for steak. The fact is, masturbation can have a positive impact on a couple's relationship. Perfect sex can be achieved through a variety of fresh ways. This could be different techniques, locations, positions, role plays, products (different styles of condoms, lubricants, sex toys), etc.

Some people believe that female masturbation is due to mental disorders and regard them as the same as sexual perverts and criminals. In the past, masturbation, especially female masturbation, has always been regarded as a sexual deviance, and many doctors even list the terrible consequences of masturbation. However, with the development of society and the progress of medical science, people finally have a correct understanding of female masturbation: female masturbation does not harm physical health. It is not only a healthy and normal sexual behavior, but also can relieve sexual tension. It is the best substitute and supplement for normal sex life.

Women have difficulty orgasming during masturbation

It is believed that women who masturbate for a long time will find it difficult to orgasm during future sexual intercourse with men. This is complete nonsense. Today, sexologists agree that female masturbation is a process for them to get to know and become familiar with their own bodies, which will enable them to better understand where their bodies are most sensitive, what kind of stimulation they need, and what reactions will follow. Sexologists were also surprised to find that women who masturbated before marriage were less likely to suffer from orgasm disorders after marriage, while women who did not masturbate before marriage were three times more likely to suffer from sexual frigidity than those who masturbated before marriage.

There is a strange saying circulating in society that women who masturbate reach sexual maturity prematurely. During the process of sexual development of adolescent girls, their breasts grow and develop, subcutaneous fat increases and makes the mons pubis bulge, the buttocks become larger, and pubic hair grows and the labia develop and thicken, all of which are secondary sexual characteristics of women. The appearance of these female secondary sexual characteristics is mainly the result of the growth and action of sex hormones in the body, especially estrogen. For a specific individual, genetic factors also play an important role. However, acquired behaviors, including female masturbation, have minimal impact on the appearance and specific development of these secondary sexual characteristics.