4 types of female relationships that are incredible in the eyes of men

Women who have close contact with the opposite sex will have this feeling: why are actions that seem very ordinary to them incomprehensible in the eyes of men? And sometimes, some behaviors of men are seen by women as causing unnecessary trouble for themselves. There is no need to make the relationship so stiff with just a few small things that can be easily handled.

1. You can have a good relationship with people you hate

Men said, "I really don't understand how you can talk calmly to someone you hate," "You can get along with people you don't have a good relationship with," and "It's strange that you say bad things about a woman of the same age behind her back but pretend to be close to her on the surface. If you are a man, you will keep a certain distance from people you hate in most cases."

For women, this has something to do with handling family relationships. Because in family relationships, men think these are trivial matters and don't care, while women face and deal with these relationships more often. In fact, the most taboo thing in family relationships is falling out, because everyone is a relative or friend, and the principle of black and white does not work here. As the saying goes, if you are not deaf and dumb, you can't be a head of the family. It means that you should pretend to be deaf and dumb and try to smooth things over when dealing with household affairs. Women bring the same approach they use in family relationships to other relationships.

2. Expensive relationships

"I find it strange that women can have superficial relationships with others," "They praise each other frequently while criticizing each other." "They tend to form cliques. Men sometimes form cliques, and they want to be happy together, but in women's cliques, they are often forced to fulfill others' requests. I don't understand this."

For women, having one or more small groups is simply a natural instinct. You see, starting from kindergarten and elementary school, small groups are formed among women. The reasons are also ridiculous, such as not liking someone or something because you like someone or something. Sometimes it's just because of a toy or for no reason at all.

In this way, newcomers get used to it and choose to join one or more groups, or even join two mutually exclusive groups. When they meet members of the other group, they use blinking as a signal, and there are even cases of being interrogated for blinking. Women never tire of this spy-like behavior. As they grow older, such childish behavior disappears, but the situation of women forming groups remains the same as in kindergarten or primary school, and the nature of their belonging to one or several groups does not change.

In order to have a stable small group, you cannot express your doubts directly. On the one hand, he expressed his goodwill, but on the other hand, he was secretly testing and sizing up the other person in his heart. Even if such a superficial relationship is seen through, the other party may be unable to do anything about it.

3. Evaluate your companions

Although this society has become very materialistic and realistic, in the eyes of men, loyalty still exists in human nature. When interacting with other people, they do not give them a materialized value like an auction valuation.

“Ranking friends one by one in your mind”, “There seem to be many relationships where people exploit each other for their own desires”, “Pricing people immediately”. "That person is very smart and does a good job, but I am better in appearance." Listing all the conditions one by one and comparing them is also a unique interpersonal communication behavior of women. Many men are very disgusted by women behaving like this.

Paying special attention to details seems to be a natural ability of women. This can be manifested in big things like a tie tilted at 15 degrees, a slightly gloomy face, or a sudden ornament on the hand. Even small things like a small pimple on the back of the neck can be noticed and various possibilities can be analyzed. When it comes to logical reasoning, if tested using formal examination papers, men will definitely score higher than women.

But judging by the details of life, women can completely leave men far behind. This inference is based on the realization and materialization of various situations. Therefore, the evaluation of people around you is like the moment a woman walks into a shopping mall. She habitually compares the prices of all the goods at a glance and makes an evaluation of whether they are worth it. See, this is a natural instinct of women. Perhaps it has something to do with the fact that women are generally considered to be more stingy and calculative than men.

Men are disgusted by this because women materialize the people around them. We cannot deny that some people do have a sense of exploitation through this valuation behavior, but more often than not it is just a habitual behavior and does not mean that she has any malicious or snobbish intentions towards the people around her. If you can make an accurate assessment of a person's situation and treat them in the most appropriate way to make them feel comfortable, that's not a bad thing.

4. Weird things that only women can do

"It turns into a troublesome gathering of girls", "'Mom's gang' eats lunch together", "Sisters go shopping together, but brothers don't." Why can people of the same sex be so happy together? It is simply impossible for two men to eat, shop and get together frequently. If two men often behave like this, the men around him will find it abnormal.

Women need companions from a young age, and they feel safe only when they act together. Men who are together are buddies, but when they grow up, they can act alone, go shopping, eat, etc. alone. In his opinion, it is meaningless to drag others along. For women, eating and shopping together to relax is also a unique way of socializing for women. During the process, you can complain and share some little secrets. These behaviors, which are meaningless in the eyes of men, are very important to women.