Why are women like wolves at 30 and tigers at 40?

After women turn 25, their instinct to have children will be challenged. As a woman ages, her chances of fertilizing her eggs decrease. Therefore, middle-aged women's desire for sex has also increased.

After men cheat on their spouses, they always use this phrase: It was my animal instinct and evolutionary program that made me do this. Especially in recent years, many articles have shown that men are promiscuous because their animal evolution has programmed them to constantly seek out more fertile, more suitable, and younger wombs.

Why women are like wolves at 30 and tigers at 40. Compared to women in their teens and early twenties, many of them may simply want more comfortable sex. However, this raises the question, why would they want to be more comfortable? Perhaps it is due to an evolutionary programming for the need for comfort.

Husband: They say women are like tigers at 30, why haven’t you done anything?

After 10 years of marriage, I discovered a terrible reality - the passion between my husband and I was gradually fading: we went from sleeping in the same bed to sleeping in different quilts, and later we slept in separate rooms. Our marriage entered a stagnant "second half of the night". One day, my husband suddenly asked me, "They say women are like wolves at 30 and tigers at 40, why haven't you done anything?" I spit at him and praised myself, saying, "I'm not a bad person!"

When it was late at night and everyone was asleep, I carefully reviewed the path I had taken and suddenly realized: my husband had been single-handedly presiding over our love and marriage. You see, it was he who "sneak-attacked" and kissed me for the first time, it was he who knelt down on one leg to propose to me, it was he who started the sexual "foreplay", and it was he who asked me again and again: "Are you happy? Are you comfortable?" Everything was initiated, arranged, and done by him. Especially in sex, I am always silent like a lamb, waiting to enjoy his tenderness or passionate conquest... Is it because I am too much of a "good woman" that he has lost his fighting spirit?

I decided to change myself

If love is a talk show, then marriage is a competition of skills, which can be cooking or sex. From this perspective, I carefully considered my husband's physical needs and reflected on my own physical needs. I suddenly realized that hugging is a very emotional and wonderful body language, so I decided to start with hugging.

Every day, I take the initiative to hug my husband once

Gradually, I also summed up a set of "hugging gymnastics": touching my husband's bare shoulders; wrapping my wrists around his neck from behind; pushing my husband to the wall and burying my head in his chest; wrapping my arms around my husband's neck with our abdomens pressed tightly together; putting one foot on my husband's feet and the other around his waist, pulling his head down with both hands to kiss him; putting our legs close together, gently shaking our upper bodies, and looking into my husband's eyes affectionately... Next it was time to free my ten fingers, so I learned to pinch, grab, and twist... Later, I also learned to bite, gently, superficially, but very provocative.

The touch of hands is enough to make people feel hot all over

This kind of “warm-up exercise” not only drives away my inner timidity and coldness, but also awakens every inch of my skin. It was like we were holding hands and wading through a stream when we were in love. My husband and I felt a little dizzy, intoxicated like our reflections in the water, swaying unreally. Our love is like a duck to water.

I became bad

But my husband is getting better and better. The developed husband is not ordinary, his eyes are thousand-year-old springs, his lips are bottomless abysses...

In my diary, I have recorded some wild things, which I would like to share with you: wearing leopard print underwear; telling sex stories, the opening line is very important; snatching my husband's cigarette and taking a few puffs of it like a female spy; winking at my husband; replacing red roses with blue enchantresses; drinking red wine; sitting on my husband's lap and putting my head between his shoulders and neck; growing long nails and painting them with green nail polish; holding my husband's chin, looking at him, and acting cool; completing foreplay on the wooden floor; letting my hair down, leaving half of my face exposed; using English as the language in bed; pressing the power switch with my toes...

In the second half of the night of marriage, my husband and I made a grand appearance

Are these games and gymnastics within marriage not also accelerators and microwave ovens of love? Yes, marriage does not only mean responsibility and loyalty, it also has other names - enjoyment, climax, wildness, unity of body and soul...