Things women should pay attention to when they have their first time

Introduction: The important moment for a girl to transform into a woman is the "first time", but many girls will be confused when facing the first time, and appear flustered because they have no experience in that area. So how can we prepare ourselves mentally and physically? Let’s take a look at the 10 issues that women need to pay attention to during their “first time”.

1. First Kiss 

Women value their first kiss, and many boys have said that the "first kiss" in boys' memory does not specifically refer to the first kiss, but the most beautiful kiss, which determines the future development of the relationship.

The first kiss is uncomfortable and difficult for men to remember due to lack of experience. A high-quality and passionate kiss can activate all of a man's sensory cells.

This kind of kiss will leave a man with a vivid memory for the rest of his life and will also influence his future choice of a mate.

2. First trip 

Some people say that if a man and a woman cannot travel happily together, they cannot be a couple; if a couple is unhappy when traveling, their relationship will not last long. It can be seen how important the feeling when traveling is to love and marriage.

Some people say that living together or trial marriage are the best ways for men and women to get closer to marriage and understand whether they are suitable for each other. However, living together or trial marriage both involve too great risks. We have an easier way - traveling.

Whether traveling long or short, or even simply dining out, can bring out the flaws in both parties' personalities. Traveling is the best way to get to know each other. Your wife might be the girl you met during a trip and with whom you get along most happily.

3. Saying “I love you” for the first time 

This sentence should come from the heart. It is a milestone in the emotional life, which means "this relationship is really like that." But saying "I love you" too early will seem careless; saying it too much will make the other person bored, so both men and women should cherish the opportunity to express their love.

4. I discovered she was humorous for the first time 

Nowadays, we all attach great importance to sense of humor, and regard it as the lubricant of life that can regulate relationships and resolve conflicts. Almost every boy hopes to meet a humorous girl and develop an intimate relationship with her.

Therefore, in your daily interactions, you might as well show more of your optimistic and humorous side to make men happier and more harmonious with you. Please remember that men will remember your first humor. They will use their sharp eyes to discover your first humor and bury it deep in their hearts.

5. Meeting her friends for the first time 

“Birds of a feather flock together” is also how we make friends now. Most boys want to get to know their girlfriend's friends, and if any of them likes to lie or behaves badly, most of them will decisively break up with their girlfriend.

But some people refute this. A small number of boys said that no one is perfect, so they don’t care much about their girlfriend’s friends and don’t want this to affect their relationship.

When a girl takes a boy to meet her friends, it proves that the girl has tacitly acknowledged the relationship between the two. This will be an important milestone in their relationship and the man will always think about it.

6. Give her the wardrobe for the first time 

Nowadays, many people often live together for a period of time before getting married to determine whether their personalities are compatible.

Boys usually think that when a boy lets his girlfriend put clothes in his closet, it is an important hint: I am serious about this relationship.
Because in the eyes of boys, a tidy wardrobe represents a thoughtfulness.

7. Say “I do” boldly for the first time 

Many boys are very nervous when getting married, and are even afraid of making mistakes when saying "I do", thinking that it will make them regret it for the rest of their lives.

A small number of boys are very afraid that they will have dry mouth and be unable to speak when getting married, which will make the bride mistakenly think that he is not willing. So a few days before the wedding, they kept practicing this sentence in front of the mirror, until the day they opened their mouths, they said the three words "I do" clearly and loudly.

8. Becoming a father for the first time 

There is no more exciting moment in a man's life than becoming a father for the first time. Many boys will even cry with joy. Almost all the boys said that life would only be perfect if they became fathers. “The moment I saw the child, I realized the value of life.”

Only when a man becomes a father can he truly grow up and become the backbone of your family.

9. Should I use contraception on my first honeymoon?

Nowadays, wedding travel is quite common. Although it has many advantages, newlyweds should not forget to pay attention to contraception, so as not to sow inferior "seeds" at this time and regret it for the rest of their lives. Because travel leads to irregular life, stress, mental and physical fatigue, the body's resistance also decreases, which will affect the quality of sperm and eggs. Besides, the climate varies greatly from place to place during the journey, making it easy to catch a cold. In addition, the crowds are mixed, pollution is widespread, and the bathing and accommodation conditions are poor, which can easily induce and spread diseases. In particular, infection with rubella virus and sexually transmitted virus bacteria is an important cause of miscarriage, premature birth, stillbirth, fetal malformation or secondary infertility.

10. What is the best contraceptive method for the first time ?

If newlyweds do not want to have children too early, they can use contraception. It is best to use condoms and contraceptive cream, which can not only ensure the contraceptive effect but also increase the lubrication of the vagina. Condoms have no side effects and are the most hygienic. If used properly, they will not only not affect the pleasure of sexual life, but also prevent some infectious diseases between couples. They are safe and reliable for both couples and future children. If there are no other discomforts, you can continue to use this method of contraception. After 2-3 months of marriage, when the woman's vagina becomes looser, you can also use a vaginal diaphragm plus contraceptive cream.

11. Will the first contraception affect the couple's sex life?

For newlyweds who are preparing to take contraceptive measures, the first question they repeatedly consider is probably whether contraception will affect the normal response of their sexual life. In fact, a large number of scientific experiments have proved that various contraceptive measures, such as male condoms, female vaginal diaphragms, oral contraceptives and IUDs, not only have no adverse effects on the human body, sexual function and sexual life, but also "provide freedom and psychological liberation for sexual life." The so-called "sexual discomfort" that some people experience is not caused by the measures themselves, but is the result of psychological illusions, misunderstandings and even distortions caused by long-term social influences.