How to win back my girlfriend who has given up on me

The process of two people falling in love is also a process of mutual adjustment and getting used to each other. Lovers often get together because of a temporary affection, and many problems will arise during the relationship. When the two people work together to solve the problems, the feelings of both lovers will be sublimated, but if they are defeated by the problems, they often face the ending of breaking up. If a girl is too disappointed in a boy and gives up, what should the boy do to win back his girlfriend?

1. If you want to win back this woman's heart, you must first think carefully about whether you have done anything to let her down.

For example, you are often very patriarchal and think that many things should be done by women and are not something you should do. You think washing dishes, mopping the floor, cooking, and buying groceries are all things women should do. When your girlfriend is busy with the trivialities of life and is very tired, but sees the mess at home, she wishes she could go home and have a good rest without having to worry about everything at home. But when I get home, even if I am too tired, I still have to drag my exhausted body to tidy up and complete various household chores. At the beginning, if a man doesn't do these housework, she will be a little discouraged, but if after a year, two years, or even longer, you are still the same.

Very patriarchal, you don't wash dishes, mop the floor, cook, or do all the housework. Women ask you to do housework and help her complete what she wants you to do. As a result, you always remain motionless. When you are asked to do something, you simply don't move.

2. If this goes on for a long time, she will be really tired. If a man treats his girlfriend like this, if you want to win back your girlfriend, then you have to change yourself.

Stop being a male chauvinist. Housework is the same for both men and women. Who says that housework is something women should do? Housework is a woman's natural mission. Women can do housework, so why can't men do housework? If you want to win back a woman's heart, you have to be a responsible person who helps your girlfriend share the housework. If you change yourself, a woman will feel that you can be relied on, that you have really changed, will look at you differently, and will want to come back to you. But one thing is very important, you should not change temporarily. Don’t change today and then be the same as before tomorrow, and then change and then go back to the same state after a few days or a period of time. It keeps happening over and over like this. In fact, a woman's heart can bear it once, but it can't stand it again and again. When she is heartbroken to the extreme, she will never come back.

3. Again, do men gamble frequently? If so, you need to change.

Because gambling is a very headache for women. Women will often be unable to sleep at night and have no mood to eat because of your gambling. Some women are so angry about their boyfriends gambling that they don't eat for a whole day. If a woman is worried all day long, unable to be happy, uneasy, has poor sleep, and is in a bad mood, she will age quickly. In such a situation, a woman may leave because she can't stand such a life. If you want to win her heart back, you must stop gambling.

4. Sometimes, I am afraid that men would rather divorce or break up than change themselves, and this is something that I really can’t do anything about.

The reason why a woman wants to leave a man is often because the man often makes her sad. Of course, it takes two to tango. In fact, the woman herself is also responsible and has done something wrong. Women also need to reflect and change, but if you want to win back a woman's heart, really care about her, and want her to come back to you, you must first change yourself, change some of the things that make her sad, be responsible, cherish her, make achievements, let her see hope, and let her feel that a prodigal son who returns is worth more than gold. This is the best way to win back a woman's heart.

Precautions

Refuse to cling on, this will only accelerate the breakdown of the relationship

Don't rush it, take it step by step