What should I do if my girlfriend doesn't want to get pregnant?

There are many couples around us, enjoying the romance under the moonlight, and as they spend more time together, their feelings gradually heat up. When love reaches a certain level, embarrassing things are inevitable. In some cases, if they forget to take protective measures or fail to take protective measures, they may have a baby when neither of them is ready. For girls, having a baby means they have to focus on the baby and lose a lot of their own space, so they usually don't want to have a baby too early. However, abortion is not good for girls' health. So, what should I do if my girlfriend doesn't want to get pregnant?

Communicate and understand why your girlfriend doesn't want it. No matter what the problem is, if we only consider our own opinions without seriously listening to each other's opinions, we will not be able to solve the problem fundamentally. Therefore, communication is needed at all times. Communicate when emotions are calm. If a consensus cannot be reached in one communication, make the right decision through multiple communications. There are many reasons why your girlfriend doesn't want children, such as lack of security with you, current inability to raise children, or no plans to have children, etc. When the boyfriend’s persuasion fails, the right thing to do is not to insist, but to consider the problem from the girlfriend’s perspective and understand her thoughts and feelings. When their emotions have calmed down and opinions have been exchanged with each other with respect, the possibility of persuasion will increase.

Give each other time to think after exchanging ideas. After knowing what your girlfriend is thinking, don't rush to convince her. Both parties must be calm at this time. Neither of you can be sure that the other's ideas are correct. I still feel resistance to the other party's opinions in my heart. When a person is alone, he or she can often think most rationally, let go of all defenses, and based on realistic considerations, decide whether the disadvantages outweigh the advantages or the advantages outweigh the disadvantages. I wonder if the problem my girlfriend is worried about is an important real-life problem. Of course, this thinking period should not be too long, 1-2 days is good enough.

Ask for the opinions of knowledgeable people. The ideas of those in power are often subject to certain limitations, but the opinions of bystanders can be used to make up for the deficiencies in consideration. Of course, you have to feel that you are not someone who believes everything he hears. That can really help you make better judgments.

The arrival of every child is a kind of fate, and as his parents you should cherish it. When encountering such a thing, it concerns a life, so you must make a careful decision and do not take his life easily. Think about your beautiful future. It would be a pity without his participation.