The manifestation of fear of marriage in women

In modern society, more and more people have pre-marital phobia, which is actually a fear of marriage. This symptom generally manifests as anxiety and irritability before getting married. This disease is actually a psychological disease, which can be caused by many reasons, but this disease can be treated in many ways. So what are the manifestations of fear of marriage?

This fear comes from the negative "propaganda" of social opinion on married life, and some media's excessive analysis of various marriage problems that "expose" the dark side of marriage, which makes people who "intention to get married" feel an invisible pressure, resulting in excessive worry about the "direction" of married life and fear of marriage failure. Another reason is that one party is not very satisfied with some aspect of the other party, or has doubts about whether certain shortcomings of the other party can be changed after getting married and whether they can adapt.

The first symptoms of premarital discomfort appear during the marriage planning stage, mainly due to doubts and fears about the durability of marriage. The second stage is the symptoms of fear, tension, anxiety, etc. that appear one month or week before the wedding. Unlike the first stage, the reason for the "fear of marriage" at this time is the "expansion" of the difficulties of married life.

Treatment method: Fear of marriage will have an impact on life and work. The usual "symptoms" are irritability, quick temper, and easy anger. Some people will be silent and unwilling to talk much, which will affect work and life.

If you are worried that you may not be suitable for your future life, before discussing marriage, you can often visit the other person's home to get to know his or her family, or talk to him or her more about his or her family, and directly or indirectly learn about the living habits of future family members. This process is also a process of psychological adaptation.

When you have doubts and fears about the long-term sustainability of your marriage, you should keep an open mind and be able to communicate with your partner to dispel these doubts. No matter what happens, such as he suddenly doesn't want to get married, you may feel very uncomfortable, but don't rush to deny the feelings of both parties. You should still ask him (her) more questions. Maybe he (she) has his (her) reasons for worrying and worrying, and his (her) worries may not be unnecessary, and sometimes they may be very practical. If well coordinated, it will be very beneficial to married life.