Why are women not interested in sex?

As we all know, for many people in life, the most feared thing at the moment of passion is a cold response. Such a sexual blow is no less than being rejected for a job after graduation. However, behind a woman's simple excuse of "I'm not in the mood" lies a hidden message that cannot be ignored. So what is it that makes women lose interest in sex? Let’s take a closer look at it below.

Sexual apathy, also known as lack of sexual desire or coldness, is one of the abnormal sexual dysfunctions or disorders. It is a common sexual dysfunction in women, and men rarely show sexual apathy. It is mainly manifested in women's lack of sexual desire, no demand for sexual life, indifference, dislike or disgust towards sexual intercourse, and anxiety, discomfort or pain during sexual intercourse.

Some people do not actively avoid sexual intercourse, but cannot make appropriate sexual responses during intercourse, lack pleasure, or the pleasure is not obvious and unsatisfactory. Some women don’t even know what sexual pleasure is and have never experienced the feeling of sexual pleasure orgasm.

In different countries and regions, the proportion of women who have never experienced or rarely experienced orgasm varies greatly, ranging from 10% to 90%.

In most places, more than 25% of women have experienced or still experience sexual apathy. Only a few women can reach orgasm almost every time they have sexual intercourse, and about half of women have more or less experienced not reaching orgasm. Some women are not used to sexual life when they first get married, and therefore feel no pleasure or satisfaction, but this is not considered sexual indifference. Because as time goes by, the sexual life of a couple will become more harmonious and the pleasure experience will be enhanced. Sexual apathy is only when there is no sexual desire at all, or when there is sexual desire but pleasure cannot be generated for a long time or the pleasure is very weak, and therefore there is no interest in sexual life.

Several psychological factors of women's sexual indifference

First, the psychological trauma caused by improper childhood education and sexual harassment. Influenced by religious influence or adult role models, people develop prejudices against sexual life. For example, they believe that sexual intercourse is dirty, obscene, unclean, and a sin, and that "men are happy and women suffer", which leads to feelings of disgust, aversion, and fear towards sexual life.

Second, lack of sexual knowledge. They are afraid of sexual intercourse and are afraid that it will cause pain, or they do not understand the psychological differences between men and women. On the wedding night, the man's movements are rough and impatient, and he reaches orgasm and ejaculates quickly, but the woman does not experience pleasure, but instead feels discomfort or pain, and even has vaginal spasm. If this continues, you will become increasingly indifferent to sex life.

Third, they worry and fear about pregnancy, and have no reliable contraceptive measures. Suppressing normal sexual satisfaction can also cause sexual apathy.

Fourth, poor living conditions interfere with sexual life. It's difficult to get sexually excited if you're unhappy and not focused.

Fifth, the woman has a serious masturbation habit. The pleasure during sexual intercourse after marriage is not strong enough, or the man has sexual dysfunctions such as impotence and premature ejaculation, and the woman cannot get sexual satisfaction.

The above is all about why women are not interested in sex. I believe many female friends have a certain understanding of this aspect. For women’s sexual indifference, it is necessary to correct it from many aspects. Both husband and wife should understand sexual physiology and psychology, master the different characteristics of male and female sexual desire and sexual excitement, recognize the significance of sexual life to people's normal life and development, and abandon prejudices and misunderstandings about sexual life. I hope female friends can lead a normal sex life.