Many people wonder how men and women in ancient times talked about love? In fact, through previous articles, it is not difficult to find that the ancients also had their own romantic ways of love, such as writing poems or sending secret glances. These simple little things can arouse the desire between men and women. So, why did ancient men love young women? What are the secrets of ancient young women? Let's take a look at the common sense of love in ancient times! >> The secret of ancient young women Women who don't wear underwear are often desirable. The young men's desire for intimacy makes them anxious and repressed, and the women who do not wear underwear provide "debauchery" content when being observed. Fantasy records the adolescence of every young man, and whether women wear underwear or not has important social value. > There is a historical tradition that women do not wear underwear. Wang Xiaobo wrote in his "Hong Fu's Night Escape": "The prostitutes on the streets of Luoyang were the most rude to Hong Fu. They would turn around and lift up their skirts to show her their bare buttocks. After seeing these buttocks, Hong Fu realized that these people didn't wear underwear. Not wearing underwear seemed to highlight their buttocks, but those buttocks themselves were not good-looking. Then they turned around and said: Do you want to arrest me? Go back and ask, how many times I have been to the palace!" Although there is no record that prostitutes in Luoyang city did not wear underwear, it is not difficult to find that Wang Xiaobo's description is apt after examining the unofficial historical notes. But it is not known whether they had any glorious deeds of "entering the palace several times". For three dynasties, women did not wear any clothes on their lower body until the Han Dynasty, when they began to wear open-crotch pants. "Book of Han: Biography of Empress Shangguan" said: "Even the palace ladies and servants all wore poor pants with many belts." The so-called "poor pants" were open-crotch pants. The purpose of wearing open-crotch pants is to facilitate urination and defecation, but it is also natural not to wear underwear. This situation continued at least until the Tang Dynasty, when the Japanese made kimonos based on Tang suits, and it seemed that women did not wear underwear when wearing kimonos. Some people also say that Kimono is a modification of "Wufu", which originated from the eight hundred boys and girls in Jiangnan. Women do not wear underwear, which retains the basic characteristics of ancient Chinese "clothing". "The only invention of the Japanese is the loincloth for men, which is still found in the huge buttocks of sumo wrestlers." Our ancestors created underwear with the primary purpose of protecting private organs and also to maintain decency, and thus it became a product of civilization. As time goes by, underwear that was once used to protect the body has now become used to restrain the body. Some are tightly tied to the inner thighs with a triangle shape, cutting into the flesh; some are sewn with three lines as an embellishment. Since the protective function does not exist, it seems unnecessary to cover the private parts. Therefore, whether avant-garde women wear underwear or not is irrelevant to the overall situation and has nothing to do with civilization. Apart from the "artistic conception" of "sudden burst of spring light", what remains is only temptation. Concepts have been open for a long time, and the era of suppressed intimacy has long gone. When couples chat at night, underwear has become an obstacle to love. It is better to overcome the obstacle, give up the bondage and return to freedom. The highest function of clothes is to protect the body; the highest function of clothes is to restore the body's freedom. Since underwear becomes a burden, it’s better not to wear it. Why did ancient men love young women? Xia Ji, a young woman in ancient times, was as fierce as a wolf at thirty and as fierce as a tiger at forty, and had unparalleled lethality to men. Young women usually make men fantasize more than young girls, and make them be infatuated with them. So why do men love young women instead of young girls? First of all, young women not only have the vitality of youth, but also have mature femininity. The biggest reason why a young woman can make men reluctant to leave her is that she has a special temperament and charm that is different from that of a young girl. In addition to possessing the vitality of youth, they also possess a mature femininity, which is common to young women from ancient times to the present. Even a girl who cannot be more pure will experience a qualitative leap after a few romantic affairs. Such as the four most famous beauties in ancient times, Xi Shi, Wang Zhaojun, Diao Chan and Yang Yuhuan; there are also talented women in literature in history, such as Zhuo Wenjun, Cai Wenji, Shangguan Wan'er and Li Qingzhao; not to mention those prostitutes of the world, such as Su Xiaoxiao, Xue Tao, Li Shishi, and the Eight Beauties of Qinhuai, such as Li Xiangjun, Liu Rushi and Chen Yuanyuan. That is to say, the formation of a young woman's special temperament may come from the tempering of a marriage, or from a previous emotional experience, or because she is forced to fall into a temporary quagmire of romance. Thus, the innocent girl became a mature young woman, and also a complete and perfect woman. Of course, a woman who can attract men's attention must have many things that a young girl cannot possess. Young girls have the vitality of youth, and young women, in addition to this, also exude a mature femininity that young girls do not have. This kind of femininity is a kind of beauty that comes from within, which is exactly what men dream of and never get tired of pursuing. Even though she is not a very beautiful flower, her fragrance and graceful demeanor can still make men unable to control themselves and unable to stop. This kind of beauty makes men fantasize about her. Secondly, young women understand better that "women dress to please themselves" A young woman is a woman who can be said to have experienced many things in life. From an innocent girl to a mature young woman, it is this role change that has made men throughout the ages have an almost crazy obsession with those young women. Of course, young girls also understand the principle of "women dress up to please themselves", but they do not understand what kind of appearance and demeanor men like in women. Only women who have been with men can understand men's hearts. No matter how beautiful a woman is, as long as she is a virgin, even if she is an old virgin who has experienced many vicissitudes of life, it is difficult for her to have the temperament and charm that makes men have wild thoughts. But it is different for women who have been married to men. Even if they are middle-aged, they still have charm. In ancient times, young wives of decent families generally understood men's hearts, and the singing girls in brothels knew men's preferences even better, dressing themselves up with pearls and jade and beautiful clothes every day. It is not difficult to understand why men in ancient times would go to brothels whenever they had free time. Not only the common people, but also princes and ministers, and even the emperor who had three thousand beauties in his harem did so. In order to catch a glimpse of the beautiful face of Li Shishi, a famous prostitute in the capital, Song Huizong Zhao Ji actually had a tunnel dug from the imperial palace directly to the brothels! This shows how obsessed he was with the young women in brothels. It can be said that Song Huizong is an outstanding representative among men who love young women more than young girls. Third, young women have experienced the baptism of wind and rain and are more attractive and lethal. After a young woman has experienced the baptism of the wedding night or a night of passion, she is no longer a puppet lying on the bed, but the best partner who can cooperate with the man. Not only have they mastered unique skills such as being pretentious or half-hearted, but they can also show off their skills at any time to please men, such as knowing some arts of calligraphy and painting, and being able to recite some poems and songs. The Eight Beauties of Qinhuai, who were famous in Jiangnan during the late Ming and early Qing dynasties, were the best among such young women. Even for young wives of good families who have been deeply poisoned by the "Three Obediences and Four Virtues", their temptation and lethality should not be underestimated after going through the trials and tribulations of sexual life. Throughout history, how many men have fallen at the feet of these young wives under the temptation of their charm. Sima Xiangru of the Western Han Dynasty was such a man who fell in love with Zhuo Wenjun, a widowed young woman living at home. "O Phoenix, O Phoenix, return to your hometown, travel around the world seeking your mate. There is a beautiful girl in this hall, I am so close to you and yet you are so far away that I feel heartbroken, how can we become mandarin ducks together?" These are the lines from the poem "The Phoenix Seeks the Phoenix" in which Sima Xiangru proposed to Zhuo Wenjun. Sima Xiangru even compared Zhuo Wenjun to a poison that "poisons my intestines", which shows how powerful young women are to men! After all, the indescribable temptation and lethality of young women comes from within, a kind of natural beauty that makes men feel unable to control themselves at first sight. This is the biggest difference between them and young girls. This is true even now. Not to mention those wealthy businessmen with millions of dollars in assets who always choose married women when looking for their secretaries, even those important officials in the government prefer young women over young girls when looking for mistresses. Needless to say, they just can't stand the temptation of young women! Young women are indeed very tempting. The main reason why men cannot control themselves and are killed by them is because such beauty comes from the heart, manifests itself on the surface, and is completed in one go, making men dazzled, intoxicated and unable to control themselves. Women who have not experienced the baptism of wind and rain will never reach that state. This is the biggest difference between them and young girls, and it is also the real reason why men throughout history love young women instead of young girls. Conclusion : Through the above ancient love common sense, do you have more knowledge about men liking young women? In fact, from ancient times to the present, men's love psychology has not changed much. People have their own emotional needs, which is also normal. Knowing how to control your desires in time is what everyone should understand! |
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