The secret to women staying attractive: how to deal with these four types of people

There are three things in the world that need to be treated with reservations or even doubt : a man's commitment, a man's feelings, and a man's reasons.

The secret to staying attractive

A man is sincere when he makes a promise, but he is also sincere when he betrays . He no longer loves you. It is obvious that he has changed his mind, but he will only think that the qualities that attracted him to you in the first place have disappeared.

Don't try to conquer a man who is over 35 years old, has never been married, and still doesn't have a steady girlfriend. There must be a trap behind this kind of person, and you may be the one who gets hurt in the end.

If you are interested in a man, don't show off your talents in front of him. Because if you fall in love with a stupid man, he will not understand your intelligence and talents at all; and a smart man will never fall in love with a smart woman, because a smart man is already very tired, and he knows very well that being with a smart woman will be even more tiring.

The best way to see whether a man loves you is to see whether he is willing to introduce you into his world and meet the friends around him, especially his parents. If a man refuses to introduce you to his parents, it means he definitely doesn't love you. Don't be fooled.

Don't be complacent about a pursuit that lasts for several years. See how often he calls you or comes to see you. If it lasts more than a week, he is not pursuing you because he loves you, he is just fulfilling his own dream.

If a man has wronged you, please break up with him resolutely, but be careful about the method, break up gently and don't lose your temper. This is quite different , because when he talks about it with others, the former will be described as a regret in the world, while the latter is a incompatibility of personalities. ,

Give men a little more regret. Because regret has always been a sad and beautiful landscape in men's hearts. Most of them do not know how to cherish, and believe that what cannot be obtained is the most beautiful, and what is lost is always poetic. It is much more advantageous for him to lose you than for you to lose him.

Don't be moved by a man's guilt towards you. Because based on deep psychological factors, when he feels guilty about you, he has usually begun to reject you subconsciously.

A man's BMW car, villa with flowers, sweet words and sadness can all make a woman fall in love with him and fall into his emotional trap. To be a happy and independent woman, you must be able to recognize a man's true colors and deal with his temptations with reason and wisdom...

Temptation A: All-powerful intelligence and ability

His charm and uniqueness really make you fall in love with him, especially his special attention and praise for you. He will always pay attention to your needs and carefully provide you with all conveniences in study, work and life. Unconsciously, you will develop a dependence on him, for example: you hint to him that you really want to get a certain position, you have always wanted to accomplish something, etc. With your dream coming true, you already owe him a lot, and all that remains is how you should "repay" him.

Principles of response:

——Ask yourself “why?” for his care for you. If you can’t find more reasonable explanations, then it is very likely that he “likes” you. Get to know him, he might be the man you need.

- If he knows that you are in love with someone but still cares about you and hints that he wants to maintain a special relationship with you, then you need to express your feelings and loyalty to your husband or boyfriend in front of him intentionally or unintentionally, and repay the benefits he has given you with ability rather than love.

- If he asks you for sex, politely refuse him and try to get out of it. Don't accept favors from him in the future.

Temptation B: Handsome appearance and extraordinary behavior

A man's handsomeness, elegant manners, and extraordinary conversation will always give a woman a good impression, especially when your life is as regular as a pool of quiet water, his uniqueness will undoubtedly bring you unspeakable passion and vitality, and you really think you have met your prince charming. Faced with his tenderness and considerateness and the sweet and thoughtful little gifts, you can't help but feel dizzy, and you can't help yourself even though you know he is not loyal.

Principles of response:

Be careful, you may meet not only a playboy, but also a master of love. When you are really immersed in the beautiful dream of love, he runs away as fast as he says he loves you. It’s okay to accept his flowers occasionally and attend friends’ parties together, but you cannot accept his expensive gifts, and certainly not his sexual demands. Remember, when reason cannot overcome temptation, please leave him quickly!

Temptation C: Sad and deep eyes

Sometimes, his sadness and frustration may confuse you more than his success and glory. In life, women often use maternal instinct to understand and accept men's weakness. This is why Nicolas Cage's melancholy eyes in "Angel Passion" fascinated so many female fans. Just as crying children attract more attention, men sometimes use their cleverness to pretend to be melancholy angels. He will say, "Honey, I really don't know what the meaning of my life is without you." This is enough to make you give without regrets. This kind of man often makes you deeply hurt and you have nowhere to complain.

Principles of response:

——If he is always depressed and you have to constantly support him, please leave him; if he does not really care about you and only relies on your feelings, please leave him!

——If you really love him, then test whether he is responsible. When the answer satisfies you, then accept his feelings.

Temptation D: A close friend of the opposite sex with similar interests

Don't think that you can always walk the balancing act between the sexes. The most difficult thing in the world to grasp is the friendship between friends of the opposite sex. If you want to develop it into the fourth kind of emotion, more than friendship but less than love, the result will always put you in a dilemma. Usually, if friends of the opposite sex have reached the point where they can talk about anything and have a sense of mutual dependence, you should seriously consider whether he is pursuing you in the name of friendship? For him, this kind of relationship is a matter of advance and retreat, of offense and defense. If you can't bear it, you may fall into his trap.

Principles of response:

For many men, common interests and hobbies are not enough to make them give their all to help you. If you feel that it is not appropriate for the relationship to continue, you should deliberately downplay your friendship and let him know that you treat him as an outsider. Otherwise, this friendship will one day control your emotions and make it difficult for you to extricate yourself.