The Chinese Valentine’s Day is approaching, let’s talk about something that will make you blush and your heart beat faster!

Qixi Festival is the Chinese Valentine's Day, and lovers will not miss any day to celebrate. The way to celebrate is nothing more than eating, drinking, dating, and doing some naughty things.

This embarrassing thing that makes people blush and their hearts beat fast is a thing that has both pleasure and risks. The risk is the possibility of pregnancy, so you must do a good job of contraception.

Many people rely on safe periods for contraception and will ask: "Dear, is today your safe period?" In the moment of passion, you still have to calculate the safe period. Besides, there is no absolute safe period. Unless your menstrual cycle is accurate for a year, if there is a deviation, there is no so-called safe period, and there is no truly "safe" safe period for contraception.

The safe period is not an exact day, but an estimated range of 4-5 days before and after the ovulation date based on the menstrual cycle, which may be very different from the actual ovulation time. It is even more difficult to control for women with irregular menstrual cycles. If you want to calculate your safe period accurately, it really depends on your luck.

In real life, some people still use the contraceptive method of ejaculation outside the body, but this method of contraception is also quite unsafe. When men are sexually excited, they will naturally secrete a small amount of prostatic fluid to act as a lubricant. When the prostatic fluid is secreted, it will contain a very small amount of sperm. If you have no plans to get pregnant for the time being, it is best to adopt a contraceptive method with a high success rate.

According to the Pearl Index, the safe period contraceptive index is 5, which is relatively poor. The index of ejaculation outside the body is 4, the index of condoms is 2, and the index of short-acting contraceptive pills is 0.3. Therefore, we recommend using condoms and short-acting contraceptive pills for contraception.

Many people will ask, condoms can also fail to prevent pregnancy, such as damage, such as falling off. But compared with safe period contraception, condoms are much safer.

Condoms are the most common contraceptive method, with a high safety index and easy to use. When wearing it, just pinch the small bubble in the front and then slowly push the condom up to complete the wearing. After ejaculation, pinch the bottom and take it out. Make sure that the semen does not leak out and the condom does not break, then this contraception is complete. Many people think that condoms will increase friction, make women dry, and make men feel alienated. What I want to say is that now technology is so advanced, and there are all kinds of condoms on the market. As long as you let go of the psychological "barrier", for the sake of the long-term happiness of two people, I believe there is always one that suits you.

If you really want to pursue "barrier-free" intimacy, I believe short-acting contraceptives will definitely suit you.
Short-acting oral contraceptives are drugs with artificial synthetic progestin as the main ingredient. They achieve the contraceptive effect mainly by inhibiting ovulation. Estrogen can reduce the side effect of spotting when progestin is used alone. This is different from the artificial estrogen-progestin cycle therapy that simulates the ovarian cycle.

Short-acting contraceptive pills and emergency contraceptive pills are different, and I want to emphasize this here. Do not use emergency contraceptive pills repeatedly or regularly. It is only a remedial measure. Regular use has poor effects and many side effects, and it is also very harmful to the body. So unless you have to, do not use it repeatedly.

If you love each other, don't make those insignificant excuses. For example, your husband/boyfriend may say that he doesn't like condoms, or that he won't get pregnant if you ejaculate outside the vagina. You should be aware of protecting yourself. Believe that if he loves you, he will also want to protect you. Taking good contraceptive measures is the real love in action. And your husband/boyfriend should understand that protecting the one you love and making her feel at ease and full of security is the magic weapon for the two of you to have a longer-term happiness than the short-term happiness of two people.

The Chinese Valentine's Day is approaching. While our faces are blushing and our hearts are beating fast, "safety" is the most important thing.

(Note: The Pearl Index is an internationally used indicator to measure the reliability of a contraceptive method, which shows the annual failure rate of a contraceptive method. If 100 adult women use a certain method for contraception, and one woman becomes pregnant within one year, the Pearl Index of this method is 1. The higher the Pearl Index, the higher the failure rate of contraception. Conversely, the lower the Pearl Index, the more reliable the contraceptive method used.)