Why do some men hate to lose their temper with women? How to deal with your girlfriend losing her temper

Contents of this article

1. Why some men are reluctant to lose their temper with women

2. What to do when a girl loses her temper

3. How to deal with your girlfriend's temper

Why do some men hate to lose their temper with women?

A good man who truly loves you will never lose his temper with you. Men generally won't lose their temper with women, especially the one they truly love. They love and care for her so much that they are afraid of being inconsiderate or neglectful, and they will never lose their temper with her. Even if their lover does something wrong, a man will not use such a hurtful method to solve the problem. In addition, any man who respects women will not treat women like this.

What to do when a girl loses her temper

1. Be more tolerant and understanding

For a savage girlfriend, you must be more tolerant and understanding. Since you are a couple, you should be more tolerant of each other's little willfulness and temper. No one is perfect. Maybe it's because she cares too much about you, and because of your lack of understanding and appreciation, she feels insecure, which makes it difficult for her to control herself from losing her temper. Therefore, the best way is to be more tolerant and understanding. You must know that there is no girlfriend who loses her temper easily, there is only the person and the thing that makes the girlfriend angry.

2. Understand your girlfriend’s personality

Speaking of a girlfriend with a bad temper, if you can't tolerate her completely, it's better to help her change. Generally speaking, there are many reasons for a bad temper. Finding the reason why your girlfriend has a bad temper can help her realize her mistakes. Maybe it's psychological reasons, family reasons, previous injuries, etc. This requires you to give more care and consideration. When you help your girlfriend, you are also helping yourself grow.

How to deal with your girlfriend losing her temper

1. Clarify the reasons why girls lose their temper

There are three reasons why girls lose their temper:

One is that she feels that the boy ignores her, so she deliberately finds trouble to make her boyfriend focus more on her;

Second, the girl feels that the boy has done something wrong and wants to vent her emotions by losing her temper;

The third is that she wanted to fulfill a certain wish, but was ruthlessly rejected by the boy.

Based on the reason why girls lose their temper, whether boys confront her or coax her, it is equivalent to satisfying her purpose. Every time you satisfy her purpose, it is equivalent to proving that her behavior is effective and encouraging her to continue doing so. This will easily develop the habit of girls losing their temper. If you have a small temper every three days and a big temper every five days, this is the portrayal of your future life!

2. Treat her temper like a child

In fact, girls’ temper tantrums are very similar to children’s temper tantrums, so we can also deal with this issue in the same way as we treat children: let her vent if she wants to! As long as she doesn’t come to us during her temper tantrum, we don’t have to take the initiative to pay attention to her, and give her space to perform. After she has consumed all her anger and energy, she will find that there is no point in doing so... she will not get any reward or punishment, and she will just perform for you. After a few times, she will naturally lose the motivation and courage to do so. Then, try to communicate with her calmly. In fact, girls’ temper tantrums do not completely lose their rationality. As long as your girlfriend is not really "unreasonable", you might as well use rational communication methods to calm her down.

3. Target your actions based on your personality traits

1. If your girlfriend is impatient, you must not deliberately act slow and indifferent when she talks to you. You can try to accept her criticism first, let her finish what she wants to say in one breath, and when she is speechless, it is time for her to give you the right to speak. For example, if she is angry when you come home drunk, at this time you can sincerely apologize and admit your mistakes, which can quickly calm her down. When her emotions calm down, it is time for you to communicate.

2. If your girlfriend is the kind of girl who is gentle and sensitive, you can't smile... If you still smile when this type of girl loses her temper, she will mistakenly think that you don't take her seriously, laugh at her, and deliberately go against her, which will make her more and more angry. Facing this kind of girl, if she is angry because you drank too much and came home, you can tell her with a wronged expression and tell her that this is also for socializing. Your grievance will make her feel sympathetic and think that she shouldn't lose her temper with you, then she will soon calm down and communicate with you properly. In general, although it is harmless for girls to lose their temper occasionally, it is ultimately an unhappy thing for both men and women, and is not conducive to the development of the relationship between the two sides. I hope that boys can properly handle it when their girlfriends lose their temper!