Why do men cheat? 5 signs of a man cheating

It is said that "marriage is not a joke". The pace of modern life is getting faster and faster, and the pressure of life is getting greater and greater. Many couples have big and small problems in their marriages. Some are due to personality incompatibility, some are due to differences in concepts, and some are due to cheating... In cases of marriage breakdown, the proportion of cheating is not low. Among them, most of them are male cheating. In real life, it is quite common for men to cheat. There are always reasons for cheating. Many people are curious about why men cheat?

Contents of this article

1. Why do men cheat?

2. Five signs that a man is cheating

3. What to do if your husband cheats on you

Why do men cheat?

1. 66% of men feel guilty when they cheat

It's not just shameless bastards who cheat. In fact, Newman points out that 68% of men who cheat never think about being unfaithful, and almost all of them wish they hadn't cheated. But obviously, guilt can't stop a man from cheating. So, even if your man swears that he will always be faithful, don't believe him. Remind him when necessary and supervise him when necessary.

2. 77% of cheating men have a good friend who also has an affair

Hanging out with friends who cheat makes a man feel that infidelity is normal. His subconscious mind tells him: My friend is a good guy who just happened to cheat on his wife. Maybe even the best men can cheat.

So, try to let your man spend less time with "cheating men", let them go to bars less, and do more outdoor sports, such as fishing, which is basically done by men. Another strategy: make friends with happy families who share similar values ​​to you, which will create an environment that protects marriage.

3. 48% of men believe that lack of emotional satisfaction is the primary reason for their infidelity

"Men are emotional beings, too," Newman says. "They want to be appreciated by their wives and to know how hard they work to get things done." The problem is, unlike women, men rarely express these feelings.

Therefore, often praise and care for your man, let him feel that you need him, care about him, and make him feel that you are spiritually compatible with him. Of course, physical satisfaction is also important. After all, 8% of men say that sexual dissatisfaction is the main reason for their cheating.

4. 40% of cheating men met the other woman at work

"Oftentimes, he's cheating with a woman at the office who admires him, respects him, and compliments him on his efforts," Newman says. "That's another important reason to make him feel valued at home."

So, avoid having the two of them have dinner together (even if it's to discuss work), avoid having them work late together, avoid having them go out for meetings alone... Ask him how he would feel if you did these things with a male colleague.

5 signs that a man is cheating

1. The most important manifestation is staying out all night

Don't listen to so many explanations from men, and don't believe so many of his excuses. Today he works overtime and sleeps in the company, tomorrow he goes on a business trip and sleeps at a friend's house, and the day after tomorrow he has to go out of town again, and he will be gone for seven or eight days.

The same story will repeat itself next week. A man who stays out all night is either an adulterer or a thief. Of course, there are always exceptions. If it is due to frequent overtime or long business trips caused by the nature of the job, then it is another matter.

2. A more subtle form of infidelity than staying out all night is coming home late on a regular basis

Because men know that it is too easy for their wives to find out if they do the first rule, they will take a more covert way to meet their lovers. For example, a man gets off work at 6 pm, but often gets home at 9 pm. For office workers, being able to get home on time is very important. This rule also applies to company bosses or other freelancers.

3. Always busy outside on weekends or important holidays

Don’t think that he doesn’t understand romance. If he doesn’t spend important holidays with you, he may be spending time with another woman under the moonlight.

Stop saying he is busy. All busyness is just an excuse. In terms of physical fitness, men have many times more physical strength and energy than women. If he is not busy with you, it is very likely that he is busy with someone else.

4. I never answer my wife’s calls at night when I’m on a business trip

Even if he was on a business trip, everyone would be off work at night. What's wrong with answering a phone call? But he said he was busy with work during the day and busy having dinner with clients at night. Don't be silly, even if he was having dinner with clients, why can't he answer his wife's call? What a bullshit excuse. After he and the client finished dinner, he said he was sleepy and wanted to sleep. He still didn't answer the phone. After a while, the wife was sad and stopped calling, and no one disturbed the man no matter what he did.

5. Men’s financial situation is becoming increasingly unclear

When a Chinese man starts to secretly keep a small treasury and throws all kinds of smoke bombs to make his wife confused about the real situation, he may have cheated. Women can't figure out how much men earn every month and don't know where their money is spent. Although women have always been emphasized to be independent, independent women should supervise men more effectively. Where a man's money is, his heart is there. If a man's money is secretly moving away from a woman, then the man's heart is also moving away.

6. He is no longer as affectionate as before

The scope of intimacy is very broad, not just kissing and banging. When some men change their minds, their eyes begin to show indifference, and their smiles become distorted. Women can feel his indifference, instead of the warm and affectionate in the past. Don't disbelieve in women's sixth sense, it's very accurate.

7. He keeps his phone with him 24/7 and is afraid of people seeing it

If he looks for his phone every time before going to bed or taking a shower, and then says with a serious expression: "Check if there is any work information", in fact, the man is deleting ambiguous messages. If a man may never look at his wife's phone, but he will never allow his wife to look at his phone, there is definitely something wrong with this man. Don't say that he has never had this habit, but that his heart may have never been open.

The right way for a wife to deal with her cheating husband

1. When you suspect your husband is cheating on you but are not sure, don't make a scene. You are in the right, but you push him to the third party. This will only bring them closer and speed up your separation. Of course, if you want a divorce, do it quickly. Don't drag it out. It will only be bad for you.

2. After getting married and having children, most of us women choose not to divorce for the sake of the children. However, even if we do not divorce, we cannot condone men cheating. At this time, you have to find a way to stop him. At this time, you are not sure that he has cheated, but when you have some doubts, you cannot ask him directly, otherwise it will hurt his self-esteem.

3. You can ask him or express your opinion in a tactful way. When you are both at home, you can watch some TV, such as Temptation of Going Home. You can express your opinion on the cheating plot in the play, and then slowly lead it to yourself, such as if it were me, I would... This tactful expression is better. If he cheated, he should know that you may know it, and if he doesn't want a divorce, he will stop. If he didn't, he wouldn't take it seriously, and would only think about your thoughts on the play.

4. Don’t be too family-oriented. It is not a good thing for a woman to be too family-oriented. The home belongs to both of you, so you should work together to manage and share the family responsibilities. You should gradually give the focus to the man. You don’t have to hold on too hard and end up exhausted, which will give him the opportunity to cheat.

5. Try to keep your man away from "cheating men", let him go to bars less often, and make friends with happy families.

6. To prevent your husband from having an affair, you must be strong yourself. Women have a hard time. They have to make money, take care of the family, and take care of themselves. If you do these things well, men will not have an affair. We can't just condemn cheating men. After all, there are still quite a few men who are worth saving. Of course, we have to see clearly whether the cheating man cheats frequently or it is an accidental one. For men who treat cheating as a commonplace, it is absolutely unforgivable. Female friends should know that your husband will always be yours. When you encounter an affair, don't quarrel or make a fuss. Just stop at the right time. The most important thing to manage a man is to control his money. The passion of life has receded. Both of you have responsibilities. From time to time, give each other some small surprises to make the ordinary life less boring. You will enjoy a wonderful marriage life.