What does it mean to "please be busy first"? How to reply

Because of chat tools like WeChat and QQ, many people can keep in touch anytime and anywhere, even if they are separated by distance, and maintain and increase their relationship. However, text chat is not as good as calling or talking face to face. You can't see or hear the other person's expression or tone, you can only read cold texts, which sometimes inevitably make people think of other things. What does it mean when a boy says "then you are busy first"? How to reply to this?

What does it mean when a guy says "then you go do your work first"?

If it is a girl he likes very much, he will type "then you go first". I think it means respecting girls, caring about girls, and cherishing this relationship more. If you really love her, you must put everything about her first. Of course, let her go first. Maybe she will feel a little disappointed, but boys know better that he will be happy only when she is happy.

If it is just an ordinary friendship. He wanted to chat with you. But you don't have time, or you are too lazy to pay attention to him. He typed "then you go first". It is also out of respect, but the boy will not be disappointed. Because this girl does not have a very important position in the boy's heart. Maybe he just feels that it doesn't matter.

Chatting is like talking. Different tones in different contexts have completely different meanings. If two lovers are deeply in love and understand each other, saying "you go first" is nothing more than a sincere reluctance to disturb the other party, and the other party will also be grateful for this understanding and tolerance, so why would there be other ideas. If there is friction in the relationship between two lovers, and they are explaining and defending themselves tit-for-tat, saying "you go first" at this time, no matter who says it, will make the other party suspicious and feel that the other party is ruthless and indifferent, which is sometimes more lethal than saying hurtful words.

How to reply, then you should be busy first

If you are in a relationship and you are really busy, it is best to say that you are working hard for the sake of a better life for both of you in the future. This shows that you want to be with her for a long time and that you want her to have a good life in the future. You can say, "Okay, I'm busy now and I'll contact you later." That's it. You can also say "Okay, I'll contact you as soon as I finish the things I have in hand"; then don't take the initiative to contact her after too long. If you are worried that your girlfriend will be angry, you can say this. You can also say, "I'm not busy, are you going to be busy?" and then coax her. Of course, the reverse is also applicable to boys.

There is a context for speaking. If you are chatting and you really have something to do, and she asks you to go and do it, it is reasonable. However, most of the time, what a woman means by saying this is, "You dare to ignore me, aren't you looking for death?" If the boy really ignores the girl at this time, then your emotional intelligence is touching, so don't blame the woman for being angry with you.

If it's just a casual relationship and you don't want to continue chatting, don't think about the reason, just don't reply or give a simple reply.

The real meaning of "You're busy first"

@Brain Slice: "Then you go busy first" These four short words actually contain so many words like "I really want to continue chatting with you, but I have to act reserved and sensible. You're busy, who isn't busy? I can make time for you. Can't you put down what you're doing and spend more time with me? It really pis ...

The phrase "you go ahead" may have many other meanings between friends or lovers, such as "I still want to talk to you" or "please remember to tell me when you are done". However, in general social situations, or when the other party is not familiar with each other, "you go ahead" becomes a tacit understanding between each other to end the conversation.

I think this should be considered as one of the current social methods, but I am not sure how many people have used it, or experienced it. In the communication between people, we can actually see very clearly that between the lines, they are leaving a way out for themselves or the other party.

When a couple is chatting, if one person says "then you go ahead and do your work, I won't bother you anymore"! This is actually very sad. After all, the person who says this must have a lot to say in his heart, but the other person is either really busy, or his attitude makes the person who is talking lose the motivation to continue talking.. So he has to use such a helpless tone of "you go ahead and do your work, I won't bother you anymore"! ! In fact, the person who says this must feel more uncomfortable than the person who hears it.

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User comments:

Mysterious Emotional Record: When I want to play games, I will say, "Then you go ahead and do your thing first."

Landlord's cat language: No, no, no, usually when I say this, the underlying meaning is: I don't want to chat anymore

Lemon: Then you go ahead and do your thing. For me, I just want to end the topic, just like good night, which means I don’t want to talk to you anymore. I want to have fun by myself. No one should bother me, and you too.

Xiao Shu: No one is really busy. Everyone has 24 hours in a day. Being busy or idle is just a matter of what you think is more important.

Tao Tao Xing Zai: He is not busy, he just doesn't want to go back

Let's go around together tonight: I'm going to watch TV, eat, and read a novel, you go ahead and do your thing!

Emotional appointment: Then you should be busy, go take a shower first, but once you take a shower, you never look back

XZ Passion can outlast the passing of timeDAYTOY: No, no, no. If I say this, it usually means "I don't want to talk to you anymore, but I have to be polite."

Six coins can be changed: Adults need to understand the subtext of other people's words

It's Ding Jiaqi: I just want someone who will reply to my messages even when he is taking a shower and wipes his hands with a towel

-Shuxuan-: Then you go ahead and do your thing = don’t bother me anymore

Petr_San: It could also mean that you are finally going to be busy, so get out of here.

F52Hz Panic: It could also be: Why do you still have something to talk about? I still have to watch TV series and check Weibo. Please find something to do and don’t disturb me.

_I don't know what to call it, I just randomly came up with it: It depends on the situation, but in most cases, the person who says this is already in a bad mood

I am Haiqiu: Just remember to look for me when you are done.

qiqi has single eyelids: It depends on the situation, hahaha, sometimes I really don’t want to pay attention to you, sometimes I just want to be angry with you.

Eating when you are not hungry is a disease: I have to get along with others. I am angry with my boyfriend and he will tell me to get busy and not look for me. To others, I may mean it literally or I have to do my own thing.

Miss_美鹿: To my boyfriend, it actually means roll roll roll, and to others it also means roll roll