What should an old couple do if they have no feelings for each other? What will consume the feelings between husband and wife?

Generally speaking, there are two reasons why couples in their 50s have no feelings for each other: one is that one of the spouses has a new love and the old love is no match for the new love; the other is that when people reach middle age, passion fades and feelings become dull, which creates the illusion that the couple has no feelings for each other. What should couples in their 50s do if they have no feelings for each other?

What should an old couple do if they have no feelings for each other?

Men in their fifties are in their prime, they are healthy and have sexual needs, but women in their fifties have gone through menopause, their estrogen levels have decreased, and they have aged physically. They will become sexually cold and sometimes refuse their husbands’ sex. If this continues for a long time, the two will lose their feelings. Some men in their fifties cheat because they cannot get sexual pleasure at home. Smart women in their fifties take good care of their skin, dress beautifully, and take the initiative to tease their husbands to enjoy sex. This can enhance the relationship between the couple and prevent the husband from cheating, which is beneficial to family harmony.

What drains the relationship between a couple?

1. Preconceived ideas

Many couples start to reduce their investment in their relationship after marriage, including time and money. Men feel that since they have married women, there is no need to surprise them all the time, while women think that since they have married men, there is no need to dress themselves up every day. Gradually, the two lose the ability to attract each other.

2. Firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea

What is the most feared thing about love? Life. When two people fall from a state of being satisfied with love to reality, working hard at work every day for food, and having to live on the money they have when they get home, conflicts are everywhere. From small matters like who washes the dishes tonight to big matters like where the food money for next month will come from, it is these trivial matters that make the beautiful love slowly disappear in the smell of fireworks.

Is it okay for an old couple to live apart for a long time?

If couples in their 50s live apart for a long time, their relationship will also break down. There is such an example around me. The son of Zhang Housheng in Gaozhuang Village worked outside and bought a house. In 2005, his daughter-in-law asked his 52-year-old mother to go to the city to help her take care of the children, and let his 53-year-old father stay at home to cultivate the responsibility land and take care of his elderly parents. In less than half a year, the lonely father fell in love with Wang Airong, a single woman next door. The two worked together during the day and lived together at night. This matter was heard by the daughter-in-law and his wife, and they quarreled with their father, saying that his father was an old and dishonest man who was cheating on women at his age.

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As the saying goes, "Young couples become companions in old age." People in their 50s are about to enter old age, which is the age when they need "companionship." If they feel that there is no affection at this time, it will be very painful to accompany each other, and it is better to separate.

Moreover, by the time people are in their 50s, many are more eligible for divorce than when they were younger.