What are the signs of a long-distance relationship breakup? What are the common reasons for a long-distance relationship breakup?

We all know that long-distance relationships are a common way of dating. Both parties are in different places, but they keep in touch from time to time, often go to each other's city, and spend every important day with each other. This way, the relationship will last longer. However, most long-distance relationships are difficult to last. So what are the signs of a long-distance relationship breakup? Let's take a closer look!

What are the signs of a long distance relationship breakup?

1. When you want to contact him, he always says he is very busy. So you don't bother him about his work, because you are afraid that he will find you annoying. Gradually, you will care less about him, and his position in your heart will gradually become lower.

2. Two people who have not been together for a long time have fewer and fewer topics to talk about. Because of their different living environments, two people in love will have fewer and fewer common topics. Although both of them know how to cherish each other and their emotional foundation is relatively solid, sometimes people really do change.

3. His updates about you are getting less and less in his social media or friend circle, but he has more and more sentiments about love. Although you know he is not talking about the two of you, you still mind it psychologically.

4. You sent a message to the other person's mobile phone, but you didn't get a reply from him. At this time, you will have wild thoughts, you will think that although I can stand the loneliness, can you stand the temptation of the bright lights and wine?

5. In the past, you wanted to tell the other person everything, and no matter how busy you were, you would squeeze out a few minutes to give him. But now you don’t want to chat with him anymore. The number of times you take the initiative to contact him has unknowingly decreased, and you don’t know what to talk about in the chat.

6. In the past, you would have sweet dates on every holiday. Either you would take a bus to find him or wait for him to take a bus to find you. But now, except for special holidays, you always find some reasons not to spend time together.

Attitude changes before breaking up in a long-distance relationship

The signs of a long-distance relationship breakup or a romantic relationship breakup are the same.

No communication

Whether they are lovers or couples, in most cases the two people have the desire to communicate. When they wake up in the morning or before going to bed at night, when they see something funny, intense communication can lead to quarrels.

I call once every three days, once a week, I don’t reply to text messages, I don’t call anymore, and I don’t share anything.

impatient

As soon as he opened his mouth to say something, he just gave a perfunctory answer, got busy with work, took a shower, said good night, and then died.

It's no different than living on your own.

That’s enough, right? When you asked this question, there was already a problem in the relationship, and it was all supported by your thoughts.

Reasons for breaking up in a long distance relationship

The biggest reason for the breakup of long-distance relationships is probably distance. Most problems are caused by distance.

The most heartbreaking thing for two people in a long-distance relationship is that they are separated. They cannot see each other, do not know what the other person's life is like, and cannot feel the strength of the other person's love face to face.

Short distance creates beauty, long distance makes people feel insecure

When a couple stays together for a long time, they can take a short break to develop their own space. When they reconnect, they will be like a couple who just got together, and their sweetness will grow.

However, long-distance relationships only have endless long-term distance. Once two people are separated for a long time, they gradually become less and less clear about each other's thoughts and understand each other less and less. Even if two people are in love, they cannot see each other, and they cannot have the warmth of listening to each other's sweet words. They cannot give each other a face-to-face hug when the other person is sad, because many times the comfort is empty and not as reassuring as a face-to-face hug.

The distance of a long-distance relationship makes people feel lonely

We all know that the chance of cheating in long-distance relationships is very high, because the two are separated by distance, and even if you find a new partner, the other party will not know. And why is the cheating rate in long-distance relationships so high? The reason is that when two people in love are together, the distance is touching, and when they need each other, the other party is often not around, which is very challenging.

If a considerate and fond person appears around you, you will be easily moved, because your current relationship is not perfect, and you want to find it back among the people around you because you are driven by loneliness.

Long distance relationships make both parties busy and full of difficulties

One thing that must be mentioned is money. It's not that long-distance relationships break up because of money, but when two people are so far apart, one of them has to go to the other's city every once in a while. Whether it's by train, high-speed rail, or airplane, the journey is a very difficult process. If the couple is financially short, taking the train will be even more uncomfortable, which greatly reduces the chance of meeting.

Some couples even have conflicts over who visits the other more often and who visits the other less in a long-distance relationship. One party always feels that he or she has given more, and over time, the longer the two are apart, the more likely they are to have conflicts.

Couples in long-distance relationships who can truly stay together must have overcome the many difficulties that I mentioned. Long-distance relationships are hard, but in the long run both parties can still maintain their original intentions. We believe that this relationship will last until the day when we see the light of day, without anyone telling us.