What should I do if my boyfriend asks my girlfriend to borrow money? Should I lend it to my girlfriend?

In real life, the concepts of "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" include all kinds of people. The level of identification ability determines the level of risk. Most victims help the scammers count money in a "feeling good about themselves". My boyfriend asked me to borrow 300,000 yuan, but my bestie refused, saying that a good man doesn't care about women borrowing money. The editor suggests that the questioner should not borrow money!

What to do if your boyfriend asks your girlfriend to borrow money

It is not reliable for a man to borrow money from a woman.

It is not common in real life for a man to borrow money from a woman, especially when the two are in a romantic relationship. So, having learned a lesson once and having seen the same thing happen around me, it is enough to tell me that it is not reliable for a man to borrow money from a woman!

Lesson 1: I remember that when I had just gotten married, a friend of the opposite sex asked me to borrow 3,000 yuan, saying that his mother was in the hospital and urgently needed money, and he promised to pay it back in three days!

Later, I don’t know how many times I called. At first, he said he would still answer the phone, but later he stopped answering the calls.

Later I calmed down and thought about it, this man had planned to borrow money because he knew that I had just got married and must have some money on hand, so he thought of borrowing money from me.

Obviously, I thought borrowing money was too simple! A man borrows money from a woman, which shows how bad this man must be to have to borrow money from a woman!

Should a boyfriend lend money to his girlfriend?

This money can be lent, but it is best not to. Even if you lend it, the other party must give you a formal and unambiguous IOU, clearly stating the time of use and whether there is interest. Why? Because first, this money is your personal property, and even if you get married in the future, it is still your legal pre-marital property. Second, even if you get married in the future, this money is still your legal pre-marital property and cannot be confused with your family income after marriage. In addition, don't give away your hundreds of thousands of dollars of property just because of the word "boyfriend". Money doesn't come easily, it's not easy to earn it. Why do you ask for an IOU? There are many shameless people nowadays. Maybe they just want your money and will say goodbye to you once they get the money. Be careful.

Is it a scumbag if a boyfriend borrows money from his girlfriend?

A truly responsible man will not ask you to borrow money. You must understand this!

If your boyfriend really needs money urgently, he will find another way to get it. He will not ask you for money!

If you knew he was in trouble and voluntarily lent it to him, the meaning would be different!

You have to understand that men have very strong self-esteem. This is something you must understand and understand thoroughly!

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(1) For men and women in love, men are naturally strong-willed and want to be the hero in the woman’s eyes! As the saying goes, men are the woman’s support! And for men, face in front of women is the first priority!

When a man borrows money from a woman, this behavior goes against his nature. Unless the man has deceptive feelings for the woman, this logic does not make sense!

(2) From the perspective of human evolution, men have always occupied the advantage in the emotional world, while women are relatively weak!

When a man borrows money from a woman, he has already made a plan in his mind, thinking that it is easy to get money from a woman. Because men are rational by nature, while women are more emotional, it is not difficult to use emotions to deceive women and get some money!

Therefore, due to the ugliness of human nature, men will become obsessed with women's money!