Should I borrow money from a poor relative who is seriously ill? What should I do if I am worried about not being able to pay back the money borrowed from a relative who is sick?

What should I do if my poor relative is sick and needs to borrow money? As the old saying goes, help in emergencies but not in poverty. Birth, aging, sickness and death are something that everyone will encounter. There will also be times when money is not available. At this time, as a relative, you should try to help as much as possible. People act and God sees. People with good hearts will be blessed.

Should I lend money to my poor relative who is seriously ill?

Whether to lend or not depends mainly on the relationship between the two families and the other party's character, not on the other party's family background. It depends on what kind of relatives they are. If they are distant relatives, forget it. Some people have no sense of crisis. When they are sick or need money for other reasons, they borrow money everywhere and complain about the unfairness of life. If you don't lend them money, they will be morally blackmailed. When a poor relative is sick, should you lend money? Don't be morally blackmailed. The key is to look at the other party's character. Some relatives are honest and kind, so they should be helped. Those who are not kind and have caused trouble in the past will not get a penny.

What should I do if I borrow money from a sick relative and am worried about not being able to pay it back?

I decide whether to lend money or not based on the actual situation. On the one hand, I look at the relationship between him and me. If he is ungrateful, treacherous, and insincere when dealing with me, then forget it. I won't lend him money no matter how rich he is. On the other hand, I look at my own situation. If I have some spare money and I can help him, and he is a good person, treats me sincerely, and has always been in harmony with me, then I will lend him some money, because everyone has difficulties.

Is it okay not to lend money to a poor relative who is sick?

In this situation, you need to consider your own financial situation as well as the closeness of your relationship with your relatives.

If I am financially well-off and 30,000 or 50,000 is not a problem, I am still willing to lend money to save my life. When I lend money, I will definitely be prepared for him not to be able to pay it back. If he can pay it back in the future, it will be an unexpected gain. If he cannot pay it back, it will be regarded as a donation to charity.

My financial situation is not very good, but I can still take out 30,000 or 50,000 yuan. At this time, it depends on how close the relationship is with the relative. If the relative is very close, such as a direct blood relative of myself or my husband, then there is no doubt that I must collect the money for him. Even if I know that the money will be wasted in the future, I still have to give it, otherwise I will not be able to live with my conscience.

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If the relationship between the relatives is not very close and the financial conditions are not very good, in this case, you can try to collect some money, about a few thousand yuan or tens of thousands of yuan, and send it to the other party to express your feelings.