Women should learn to keep men interested

Whether it is dating or marriage, if two people want to go further, they can't avoid each other's careful management. The two people have gone from being ambiguous to being lovers, which is just the starting point of happiness. If they want to reach the end of marriage, they must work together. Marriage is just a new journey. There is still a long way to go in the future, which requires more understanding and tolerance from everyone.

The love affairs between men and women also require some tricks. In relationships, women usually become more and more dependent on their boyfriends, while boys seem to be increasingly lacking. Therefore, it is important to be able to adapt to circumstances. Being stubborn and self-willed will always slowly make his feelings for you return to zero. Therefore, women also have to learn to be scheming so that he will love you more and more.

Learn how to "hook" a boy's appetite, and he will become more and more addicted to you!

01. Learn to balance hardness and softness, and be moderately weak

Men have an innate desire to protect women. Why do those tall men who are 180cm tall prefer girls who are under 160cm tall? It is just the visual difference that will make him have a strong desire to protect this woman. There is always a Superman dream in the heart of a man. He cannot protect the world, but he can protect the one he loves.

It is very good for a woman to have a bit of toughness in her temper. After all, this is your moral bottom line. He will also respect you a little because of your toughness. But you can't be too tough. Show your weak side in moderation, consider his machismo, and he will spoil you more and more.

02. Make him feel that he is needed

Nowadays, girls are more and more independent. They can move house by themselves, climb stairs carrying a six-pound plastic bucket on their backs, and fix a broken light bulb by themselves. If they have any unsolvable problems in life, they can just make a phone call and professional maintenance workers will come to provide services. They can also be self-sufficient financially. For them, love is better with it, but not having it doesn't affect anything.

Even after they fall in love, they will not be able to adapt to the life of having a boyfriend for a while, and will still insist on their own lifestyle. After all, they are used to being alone, and men will immediately feel that they are redundant, as if she does not have me or not. He has no feeling of being "needed" in you at all. After dating for a while, he will immediately feel that being with you is very boring. After all, if you don't need me, then why should I bother to be with you.

03. No matter how much you love someone, you still need to maintain a certain distance

People in love want to stick to each other all the time, but there is a saying that "distance makes beauty". If two people stick too close, they will quickly expose each other's flaws and the mystery about each other will quickly disappear. At this time, their relationship will immediately face a huge crisis, which may end in a breakup if not handled well.

Why do lovers who live together break up so quickly? It's simply because there is too little distance between them. Therefore, no matter how much we love each other, sometimes we have to give each other the cold shoulder. Not seeing each other for a few days will make us more excited about the next date, leaving some freshness for ourselves, which will make the freshness last longer.