Having sex after a normal birth is great

After giving birth, women's physiological and psychological states undergo great changes, and it takes a long time to return to their previous state. Some women will experience sexual frigidity after giving birth. In fact, postpartum sexual frigidity is a necessary stage for the body to recover. During this period, the attention and cooperation of lovers are very necessary. Is sex life enjoyable after a normal birth? What will happen? Let’s take a look.

How to rekindle past passion after having a baby?

1. Consider your husband's requirements appropriately

In addition to caring about the health of the baby, new mothers should pay attention to putting some energy on their husband and family, actively care for their husband, and properly consider their husband's needs. Only in this way can we maintain harmony in daily life, make the family harmonious and the marriage happy.

2. Communicate more with your husband

In fact, babies and husbands are both members of the family and are indispensable commodities. Although the baby is a result of ten months of pregnancy, the husband is also the one whom you love deeply, and with whom you want to grow old and spend the rest of your life happily. The mother should correct the relationship between the baby and her husband psychologically and behaviorally, and care and cherish both of them. Communicate more with your husband, tell him about your own situation, understand his needs, and give him more love.

3. Pay attention to cleanliness and hygiene

The mother's reproductive organs will gradually recover. During this process, when her husband has the urge to have sex, the mother can try to get rid of the fear as much as possible. If necessary, you can apply some lubricant or contraceptive cream to the vulva during postpartum sexual intercourse to enhance the lubrication effect. Before and after sex, pay attention to cleanliness and hygiene. After having sex, pregnant mothers can clean the vulva with warm water. However, it is strictly forbidden to have sex when the lochia is not clean after giving birth, because it is very easy to be infected with bacteria.

4. The husband should be gentle

After giving birth, the mother's vagina is very delicate and sensitive. The husband should be caring and loving to his wife. Before having sex, he should give his wife enough verbal support and physical caress. When having sex, do not be rough and be gentle. Otherwise, it is very easy to cause the wife's vagina and private parts to be damaged again.

The hardships of pregnancy and the difficulties and helplessness of childbirth are really not easy for many women. Some people may suffer from depression for a long time. As the husbands they most rely on and trust, they must give more attention and care to help mothers get through this stage successfully.