Is having a second baby more painful than having a first baby?

Many women do not want to have a second child because they are worried that it will be more painful, and because the first child was delivered naturally with extreme pain. Some also have a caesarean section for the first child. Is it true that having a second child is more painful than having a first child? In fact, this worry is unnecessary. Not only that, if a woman has a normal birth for her first child, it will be easier for her to give birth to her second child. Of course, if the first child was delivered by caesarean section, it is best to wait more than three years before getting pregnant again, which is safer.

Is it more painful to give birth to a second child than a first child?

Natural birth is a method of childbirth. Natural birth is much better than caesarean section. At least the baby is intact and without defects after birth. This is the biggest temptation for women who love beauty. Caesarean section is a surgical procedure that can cause harm to the mother, both psychologically and physically. For example, anesthesia accidents, intraoperative or postoperative bleeding, improper postpartum care, etc. Injury to the bladder, ureters, and intestines during surgery, and postoperative infections such as peritonitis and sepsis. The postpartum bleeding rate of cesarean section is high, the puerperal infection rate is 10 to 20 times that of vaginal delivery, and the maternal mortality rate is 5 times that of vaginal delivery. Natural delivery is a delivery method that is suitable for humans.

Natural childbirth causes little harm to the body. If there is no episiotomy, there will be no wound on the uterus. Theoretically, you can get pregnant as long as your menstruation comes, but both the body and the uterus need a period of rest and recovery. It would be best if it were about 2 years. For the sake of your own health, don't rush to have a baby. It is recommended that you pay attention to diet and nutrition, get more rest, and if you plan to get pregnant, try having sex during the ovulation period. If you are pregnant, it is better to have a prenatal check-up.

The best age to have a second child

After a woman reaches 35, her ovarian function begins to decline, the quality of her eggs will decrease, and the chance of natural pregnancy will also decrease, which will increase the difficulty of conceiving a second child. Pregnancy after the age of 35 is considered a high-risk pregnancy, and the chances of pregnancy complications such as miscarriage, premature birth, gestational hypertension, and gestational diabetes are greatly increased. The risks of fetal chromosomal diseases and fetal malformations will also increase accordingly. Therefore, if conditions permit, women of childbearing age should give birth to their second child as early as possible before the age of 35 to avoid the risks of giving birth at an advanced age. For women who had a cesarean section for their first child, the condition of their uterine scar should be checked before getting pregnant again.

Even if the first child has no adverse birth history and the baby is healthy, you still need to pay attention to pre-pregnancy check-ups when preparing for the second child. Through pre-pregnancy check-ups, you can detect physical abnormalities in time and receive timely treatment to provide a good living environment for the fetus. It is recommended that couples start prenatal checkups 3-6 months before pregnancy.

Routine pre-pregnancy check-ups for women mainly include: routine blood tests, urine analysis, infectious disease tests (syphilis serum antibody test, HIV antibody test, hepatitis, chlamydia test), four eugenics tests (rubella virus, cytomegalovirus, toxoplasmosis and herpes simplex virus, etc.) and genetic disease tests, reproductive system examinations (cervical cancer screening, ultrasound, etc.).

If there is no rubella virus antibody in the body, it is best to get the rubella vaccine six months before pregnancy to prevent infection during pregnancy. If you are infected with viruses such as rubella, cytomegalovirus, toxoplasmosis, herpes simplex, etc. in early pregnancy, it may cause malformation. If you have given birth to a deformed baby or a baby with a genetic disease in the past, you will be at the same risk the next time you become pregnant, so prenatal screening and diagnosis are necessary.

In addition, before preparing to have a second child, it is best for both husband and wife to exercise and improve their physical fitness; change bad living habits and ways, pay attention to balanced nutrition, and maintain weight within a reasonable range; be cheerful, maintain a good mood and mentality, and welcome the arrival of the baby in the best condition.

In fact, when it comes to the question of when is the best age to have a second child, we must not only consider whether the physical condition of the parents is suitable, but also the child's psychological endurance. Many only children expressed strong opposition when they saw their parents preparing to have a second child. Therefore, when considering the age to have a second child, we must not only pay attention to physical fitness, but also the child's ability to accept. It is best to have the child when he is relatively young.