Selfish women's various behaviors

When men and women are in love, they often develop feelings for each other due to temporary hormonal attraction, and this kind of relationship will not last long. If you want to enter the palace of marriage, you need to understand and tolerate each other in the later process of communication. You also need to seriously understand each other's personality traits and analyze whether the other person is the most suitable person for you. So if you want to tell whether your girlfriend is selfish, take a look at these various behaviors of women.

1 Like to blame others

Selfish people rarely blame themselves for the consequences of their actions. She tends to think that anything bad that happens is someone else's fault. When things go wrong, she is quick to blame others because she believes she would not do anything detrimental. On the other hand, if the results are positive, she’ll immediately take the credit.

2. Self-centeredness

A selfish person only thinks about himself and never considers others. Even if he sometimes says that he would consider others (which is similar to a hypocritical person), when it comes to his personal interests, he will never make any concessions.

3. Stingy

Selfish women, because of their extreme greed for benefits, have developed their own unique stingy personality traits. It is not only reflected in money, but also in emotions. You may mistakenly think that they are frugal or not very sociable, but these are just appearances. Their essence is selfishness, because they will never spend a penny more on others, including themselves. At the same time, they will not give more emotions, unless they think that giving emotions will gain greater benefits. Only in this way will they be extremely reluctant to show their feelings, but the way they express their emotions is so artificial and pale.

4. Always put yourself first

If your friend is selfish, she may only come to you when she's feeling unhappy or needs help. Other times, she'll leave you and go about her business. And when you need help she'll claim she doesn't have time. She only calls to tell him about her misfortunes when life is not going well, and only appears when she needs comfort. It's not a bad thing to have this conversation occasionally, but selfish people rarely call or visit to ask how you're feeling or how your life is going.

5. Sensitive

Because a selfish person is overly concerned about his own interests, he is very sensitive to the reactions of the outside world, especially those things that involve or do not involve him. He is afraid of being at a disadvantage, and afraid that others will take away the benefits that he should or should not get. His mentality is extremely fragile. Over time, selfish people will more or less have some neurotic characteristics (which is somewhat similar to anxious people).

6 Make sure the other party gives in first

If I have a dispute with my husband after marriage, I always ask him to give in; after the dispute, I always ask him to speak up for reconciliation first, and I always feel that my feelings are more important than his.