Why do girls feel tired when in love?

Some people's love journey is very sweet, while some people's love journey is extremely difficult and it is easy to make people feel tired. For example, some long-distance relationships are often difficult to persist. Generally speaking, long-distance relationships will cause both parties to be physically and mentally exhausted and eventually break up. In particular, some women feel that they become tired and unhappy after falling in love. What is the reason why girls feel tired in love?

Plato once said, "There is no other emotion in the world that is as deeply rooted in the human heart as love. If a person who is in love does something dishonorable and is seen by his father, friend or anyone else, he will not turn pale as if he were seen by his lover." Love is so magical and mysterious. It can make people feel uneasy or suffer. But most of the time, love is sweet and joyful, so many people yearn for love.

However, many people also feel that being in love is tiring. Relationships make them feel anxious, inferior, depressed and other negative emotions, and they feel very tired. Medical experts classify feelings of fatigue as part of human sub-health because they can cause many physical and mental illnesses.

Love should be beautiful, but many people also find it tiring. In fact, there are only a few reasons for this. One is that the purpose of love is not pure. True love should be based on mutual attraction, not because of some material reasons. Another reason is that the mode of getting along is wrong. Love should be based on mutual respect and equality. There should be no lack of tolerance and understanding. However, if one party makes the other feel uncomfortable, then no matter how much they love each other, the two people together will find this relationship very tiring.

The change in the concept of marriage and childbearing in modern society has changed the view of love of many people. Therefore, the number of older men and women is increasing year by year. However, many people are still deeply influenced by the concepts and words and deeds of traditional society and want to fall in love and get married. Therefore, many single men and women choose to fall in love with someone they are not familiar with at all in order to get rid of being single. Purposeful love makes two people physically and mentally exhausted in the process of getting along. The emotional relationship that should have been very beautiful makes the parties feel tired and exhausted.

Two people who love each other because of love are also prone to feeling tired during the process of being in love. It is more because their way of getting along with each other is not right. Psychology believes that at least two tasks must be completed in the process of love in order to have a smooth relationship. One is to show the truest self, and the other is to learn the ability to love. A line in the movie "So Young" is very correct. The reason why we don’t get love is because we love ourselves more than others. Therefore, just as we share the love we have for ourselves with our loved ones, we can get the best love with more tolerance and understanding.

When you feel tired of being in a relationship, you should examine your relationship. Some people say that the feeling of being in love is like suddenly having a soft spot and suddenly having armor, but overall it is normal for the feeling to be more beautiful than painful. If your love magnifies your pain, then there is nothing wrong with enjoying solitude.

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