How to cheer up my girlfriend when she is upset?

Women's minds are very meticulous and more delicate than men's. That's why it is said that men don't understand women's hearts. It's because men are too careless. Maybe it’s because of physical reasons or other reasons, but women are always easily upset. So the question is, if a girlfriend is suddenly upset, what good method should a boyfriend use to make her happy?

1. When you find that your girlfriend is unhappy, you should immediately ask her patiently, carefully and sincerely. If the answer is: "No," then you must not give up and must persist in getting to the bottom of it. Sometimes women are very duplicity. She may just want to wait for you to continue asking questions before answering, in order to increase the drama of the plot. But if you don't ask, she will have nowhere to say it, and in the end she will be angry, and you will be the ones who suffer.

2. When you find that your girlfriend is inexplicably angry, no matter what you are doing, you must put it down and hug her tightly. If she resists or pushes you away, don't let go. Be thicker than the bark of a tree and hold on tightly until your death. Then gently ask her what she is angry about. If she keeps silent, then you should start by lightening the mood. Deep kissing, biting, tickling and other actions that can increase the intimacy between the two of you can make her forget about what makes her angry. Wait until she smiles again, then ask her what she is angry about, and don’t forget to add at the end: "Just tell me, and I will change!" Regardless of the results of your changes, she will definitely be much calmer after hearing these words! Furthermore, don’t ever think: let her calm down first, and then talk to her after she calms down! Unless you are already bound by marriage and have children, calming down may help her regain her rationality. But this is not possible if you are in love. If you let her calm down, maybe she will calm down completely. And your girlfriends won’t appreciate your good intentions. They will only think that you are indifferent and that you don’t react at all even though she is so angry. Sometimes a woman is angry not because of anything, she just wants to get your attention, wants you to coax her and let her vent. If you refuse to accept it, she will have no choice but to find someone else to vent her anger on. Unless you don't want to live with her anymore. Otherwise, please bear with me, sweetheart!

3. Women usually have rich imaginations and often say irrelevant things. Just let her talk, don't argue with her or give her a detailed analysis, or even help her calculate 1+1=2, until you prove that she is wrong. If you do this, you will only invite quarrels. The correct approach is to say “um, um, yeah, yeah” and then make a relevant comment without denying it. She will discover her mistake by the time she has finished making her fallacy, even if not right now. Don't argue with her about anything.

To paraphrase a saying: "What my wife says is always right, even if she is wrong!" (It is better to say it this way: First, my wife is always right; second, when my wife is wrong, please refer to the first one. ---- Yang Juan)

4. Make phone calls at irregular times every day. If she no longer likes you, your constant calling will indeed make her annoyed, but if she still likes you, then receiving a call from you will feel very sweet. Are you afraid that if you say too much, there will be nothing to say? Then just say: "I miss you!" This will make her look forward to meeting you again with joy.