Is it normal for women to have frequent sexual fantasies?

Is it normal for women to have frequent sexual fantasies?

It is actually normal for women to have frequent sexual fantasies, but many people don’t understand this very well, so they feel uneasy. When having sex with their husbands, they often imagine that they are having sex with another handsome man. Out of moral condemnation, many people feel sorry for their partners when this happens, but sometimes they just can't change this habit. Is this a pathological manifestation? I believe many women will have similar questions. Sexual fantasy refers to fictional imagination related to sex and is a common sexual psychological phenomenon. So don’t worry about whether you are sick just because you have sexual fantasies.

Romantic sexual fantasies

Almost all women will admit this without hesitation, because it is the most acceptable and easiest to talk about among all kinds of "sexual fantasies". If a woman says, "I dreamed that I was making love with a handsome guy on a sunny tropical beach," it would definitely be more feminine than saying, "I dreamed of giving a blowjob to a strong policeman." Reserved women tend to dream of the seaside, mountains, castles, manors, under the shade of willows, on boats, in the sun or in the moonlight... The scenes are different and the language of expression is different, but in a large number of questionnaires, almost no woman denies that she has had romantic sexual fantasies of one kind or another.

Sexual fantasies of being raped

Many women have fantasized about being raped "safely". Perhaps some people may find this ridiculous, unbelievable, or too far from reality. Women who imagine being "raped" in their minds only focus their fantasies on the form of sexual behavior: forced, intense, rapid... For "good girls", they rarely fantasize about the physical pain of being "raped". In fact, this "fantasy of being raped" is far from the real criminal "rape". In other words, fantasy sexual rape is nothing more than a woman's fantasy of herself being "playfully" ravaged by an imaginary man like a cute doll, and it does not contain any real violence.

At the other extreme, some women tend to fantasize about being raped by a "rough man," and the relationship between them and the imagined man is often imagined to be as cold as a court trial or a business negotiation. The reason why such fantasy is attractive is that it makes it easier for women to feel the "real existence" of the fantasy object.

Fantasy that fascinates men

Almost all women fantasize about being a beautiful, slender, sexy, cute, and charming woman. They fantasize about having a large group of men around them, flattering them, and being attentive to them. They fantasize about "controlling themselves," "controlling the men," and "controlling the situation." They always "grant" a certain outstanding man to be close to them. This fantasy is too common, because which woman doesn't want as many men as possible to fall at her feet?

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