The woman who was thrown into bed wants to tell you some secrets

Regarding the question of women's minds, it's just like the song sung by Timi Zhuo: Don't try to guess what a girl is thinking. You will never understand it no matter how much you guess. Men rarely understand women's minds. Today I will take you to see what women are thinking! People often say that women are a book, but this book is not easy to understand, especially when it comes to sexual issues. If you don't tell a man about a woman's innermost desires, how can he know?

1. Condoms do not affect pleasure. There is no need to worry about scratching an itch through a layer of rubber film, because it does not affect women's pleasure, and of course, it does not bring more pleasure.

However, sometimes women wonder whether the condom has slipped off or been torn - this is purely for the purpose of contraception and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. Of course, there would be no pleasure in having sex if there was a risk of an unwanted pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease.

2. Think about celebrities during sex. Most of the women who answered the question admitted that if it was a sexual intimacy that was neither happy nor successful, they would usually think: Why did it end like this? Otherwise, they may indulge in their own sexual fantasies. If they think of other men at this time, they are often not ordinary men they know, but men or male celebrities they like. Sometimes this imagination makes them very excited, and sometimes nothing happens. More than 30% of women unswervingly choose their husbands as their "sexual fantasy objects", which shows that for women, love always comes first.

3. Don’t like to make love under the light. A woman’s body usually makes men extremely excited, but women often turn off the lights before making love. Is it shyness? It's not that simple. Most women believe that in the dark they can feel a wider sexual space, can better think about many pleasant and exciting things, and thus be more excited.

The eyes can’t see anymore - women are used to making love with their eyes closed, and everything will be left to the body’s senses, allowing them to focus more on sex. Another important reason is that most women are worried that their faces will become ugly due to excitement, and they may even make some ecstatic moans. In the darkness, these will be concealed. In fact, women do not completely hate light. If the space for making love is lit with a dim and blurry light, it can even help create an ambiguous atmosphere.

4. Not averse to variation. Men are never satisfied with the accustomed sexual positions and caressing methods, and always want to try new things in pursuit of greater stimulation and pleasure, such as varying sexual positions or trying new sexual behaviors. In fact, modern women are generally no longer averse to this in their cognition and actions, because they also have the need to pursue freshness and excitement.

But one premise must be adhered to, that is, they believe that this sexual posture and caressing method is healthy, hygienic, safe, and can make themselves happier, and will never cause any harm to their physical and mental health. Therefore, if men want to try new sexual positions and ways of caressing, the most important thing is to respect the wishes of women and obtain their consent, rather than imposing their will on others.

5. Fake orgasm If you think that a woman’s excited screams during sex are a sign of orgasm, you may have been fooled. In fact, most women, especially young women, have the tendency and behavior to fake orgasm. In their opinion, only women who are easily sexually excited can be more attractive to men and are the partners that men like. Therefore, every woman hopes that she can appear to be very aroused, or appear to be so.

You know, which woman is willing to admit that they are indifferent in bed, like a piece of wood - another important reason is that most women know that men are both passionate and very fragile, so they can't bear to make them feel disappointed and unhappy. Of course, if they want to get rid of the man as quickly as possible, or don't feel like having sex at the moment, is there a better way than faking an orgasm?

6. Women don’t like mighty and brave men. To women, what kind of men is the sexiest and most attractive - mighty and brave, or rough and strong - sorry, that is already an old story from the medieval knight era, or it only exists in stories from martial arts and gunfight movies. Women in today's society prefer men who are gentle, kind, proactive, successful in their careers and responsible, because such men can give them more sense of security, dependence and trust.

Most women also admit that such men are truly sexy, charming and lovable. Of course, if they had a bit more courage in them, women wouldn't reject them. As for sex life, bravery and roughness are two completely different things.