Pain during intercourse two months after normal delivery

Two months after a normal delivery, all aspects of your body have not yet returned to normal levels. In this case, rashly having sex may cause secondary damage to the body. It will also make female friends feel some pain during sex. Once the pain is unbearable, stop having sex immediately to prevent damage to the vagina or even symptoms of heavy vaginal bleeding.

After the postpartum period, if there are no abnormalities, you can resume your sexual life. But most women are tired from taking care of and breastfeeding their babies. In addition, the stimulation of the baby sucking the mother's nipples can also compensate for the woman's sexual needs, so the mother may be indifferent to sex life. As a husband, you should understand the psychological and physiological characteristics of women during this period, be patient, and spend more time taking care of the family.

Be careful when resuming sexual life. Although the mother's reproductive organs have returned to normal, her endocrine system may not have returned to its pre-pregnancy state. The vaginal tissue is fragile and weak, which can easily cause lacerations or even heavy bleeding. You must use contraception. You can still get pregnant even if you breastfeed after giving birth and don't have your period.

During the postpartum period, the reproductive organs of the mother gradually return to normal. This period lasts about 6 to 8 weeks and is not suitable for sexual intercourse. After delivery, the endometrium needs to be repaired and the lochia has not been completely discharged. If you have sex at this time, bacteria from the male genitals and the female perineum will be brought into the vagina, causing pelvic inflammatory disease. At the same time, due to the mechanical stimulation of sexual life, the pelvic organs that have not yet recovered will become congested, reducing resistance to disease, causing severe infection and possibly peritonitis or sepsis, affecting the health of the mother.

After the postpartum period, sexual life can be resumed only after the postpartum examination confirms that the woman has recovered.

Sexual pleasure comes from physiological and psychological coordination. In addition to good psychological conditions, local physiological conditions also play a decisive role. After giving birth, the tension of the vagina changes, the vagina becomes loose, or due to postpartum uterine prolapse and vaginal wall bulging, the vagina becomes too loose. During sexual intercourse, the vaginal wall's ability to sense the friction and stimulation of the penis is lower than before, and it does not get enough stimulation, which will affect the pleasure of "vaginal orgasm".

Some people focus on feeding their children after giving birth and lose interest in sex life; some become indifferent after completing the important event of having children; and some suffer tremendous pain during childbirth and are afraid to give birth again, so they have a reflex fear of sexual intercourse and affect the generation of pleasure. In order to prevent the loss of pleasure after childbirth and maintain a harmonious sex life, in addition to correcting the understanding of sexual life psychologically, it is also necessary to restore the tension of the vagina as soon as possible after childbirth. You can strengthen vaginal contraction exercises during postpartum health exercises.