How to reduce pain for women during first time

In fact, for many female stars who have just had their wedding night, it is very painful the first time. Sometimes it even makes people feel that the more nervous they are, the more painful it is, and it hurts to the point of being excruciating. They are also often influenced by TV dramas and various books and think that the first time is more painful. In fact, after the first time, you should pay attention to these aspects of psychological preparation to prevent pain.

Why do most women say "the first time hurts"?

In a natural state, the front and back walls of the vagina fit well together. When a foreign object is inserted into the vagina for the first time, the vaginal mucosa is subjected to unprecedented fresh stimulation, and our brain must recognize this new sense of touch. If we recognize this new feeling as touch, a feeling of being stretched, or a feeling of fullness, we will not have an emotional reaction of fear; if we have a preconception in our minds that the first night must be painful, then this new feeling will naturally be recognized as pain, making us fearful and afraid, because everyone is afraid of pain; if we have correct expectations for sex, then we will recognize this feeling as strong sexual stimulation and sexual sensation, which will make us sexually excited.

1. After my wedding night, I realized that those scenes in novels and on TV were too exaggerated. The first night was not that painful at all. The hymen is a thin membrane, more fragile than plastic paper. Due to years of practicing dance and playing sports, there is not much area left, so I didn’t feel any pain at all. Otherwise, why do we rarely hear married women say that their first night was extremely painful?

2. After getting married, I realized that many women would cry out in pain during their first time (first night). This is entirely due to their high mental tension. Because the woman is nervous, her whole body is stiffer than before, and the man is affected by the woman and also becomes nervous. As a result, because the woman is not relaxed, the man's penis is not aligned with the vagina and the woman will cry out in pain.

4. Other reasons for pain cannot be ruled out, such as inserting when the vagina is dry, or the movement is too large.

How to relieve the pain of a girl's first time

1. Spend more time on kissing, hugging and caressing, which is called "foreplay", to make the woman fully excited and moist. This will make the woman's vagina more and more moist, and will also reduce a lot of pain during entry.

2. If it is still dry, not exciting enough, and the vagina is not moist enough, you can use lubricant to moisten it. During the entry process, it is best for women to actively tell men about their feelings, so that two-way communication can be achieved, and the angle and amplitude of entry can be adjusted at any time to reduce pain;

3. The woman should tell her how she feels at the right time, and the man should try to move gently and with a smaller amplitude;

4. Changing positions, for example, side by side or with the woman on top, will improve the situation;

5. If the pain persists or bleeding occurs frequently after sexual intercourse, you should see a doctor to prevent disease.