I regret induced abortion and can't get over it

Induced abortion is a last resort for every woman. If there are other methods, I believe many women would like to give birth to their babies safely. But there are always many reasons why it is necessary to induce labor. But some women have been unable to get out of the shadow after induced abortion surgery. So, what should you do if you regret the induced abortion and cannot come out?

After the abortion, the husband needs to comfort his wife immediately. He can choose to transfer his wife's thoughts to other aspects. If conditions permit, he can give his wife everything she likes. You can also ask your wife's besties and friends to help persuade her to get out of the low period after abortion earlier. After your wife recovers, you can also choose to take her on a vacation around the world to relieve her stress.

Of course, the key is to explain to your wife the pros and cons of induced abortion for the family. If the child is born with a deformity, it will undoubtedly have a great impact on the family. First of all, the huge medical expenses will make it unbearable for the couple. Also, once the child is born, the symptoms will be incurable for life. The couple may be able to afford it, but the child may not accept it.

If a child is born with a deformity or other disease, the child may have to live in pain for the rest of his life. Therefore, you need to tell your wife to really care about the baby. Only in this way is it the best choice, because no one wants to be born abnormal. After this kind of thing happens, we must try our best to avoid the situation of induced abortion from happening again.

Common problems after induction of labor

1. After induced abortion, pay attention to any signs such as vaginal bleeding, abdominal pain, fever, chills, etc. If vaginal bleeding lasts for more than 1 week, seek medical attention immediately.

2. Improving nutrition and getting enough rest are essential. For a woman who has undergone induced abortion, it is equivalent to giving birth to a child. Don't participate in physical activity too early, otherwise, it is easy to fall into the problem of "uterine prolapse". You should rest for at least ten days. At the same time, you should pay attention to avoid cold and fever to promote the body to recover as soon as possible. It is generally recommended to wash your hair with warm water 2 weeks after the abortion surgery.

3. Take measures to stop breastfeeding immediately. After a miscarriage or induced labor, due to the adjustment of hormones in the body, the brain will temporarily secrete a lactogen to stimulate the body to produce milk. Therefore, after abortion, you should immediately take measures to stop milk production. You can take vitamin B26 orally, 200 mg each time, 3 times a day, for 3 consecutive days, or drink it as a soup made from fried malt. For women who secrete too much milk, they can go to the hospital for a milk-reducing injection or use Chinese herbal medicine to reduce milk secretion.

4. Keep the vulva clean and hygienic after induced abortion to prevent infection.

5. It is not suitable to have sexual intercourse or take a sitz bath within one month after induced abortion to prevent the growth of bacteria and infection, which will be detrimental to the woman's physical recovery.

6. Pay attention to contraceptive measures when resuming sexual intercourse. Because women's uterus and ovaries will resume ovulation about 30 days after abortion, women should take effective contraceptive measures once they resume their sexual life to prevent pregnancy again.