What is the special relationship between women's tears and desire?

In the relationship between men and women, women always desire to get more. In fact, what men hate most is women's tears. Although women always think that "crying" can solve everything, what is the special relationship between women's tears and desire? Today, let's follow the editor to reveal the secrets of men and women's emotions from the psychology of love!

Women's Tears and Desire

The ancients often used "pear blossoms with rain" to describe the beauty of a woman when she cries. But recently, a new study reported by the BBC found that although women's tears can arouse men's sympathy, they can also dampen men's "interest".

Noam Sobel, a neurobiologist at the Homo Sapiens Institute for Scientific Research in Israel, led the research. They collected tears shed by female volunteers while they watched tragic movies. The staff then gave the tears and saline solution to the male volunteers to smell alternately.

The results showed that the men who smelled the tears were more likely to find the women's faces unattractive.

Among the men who smelled the women's tears, testosterone levels dropped by an average of 13%.

In addition, the male volunteers' skin temperature, heart rate and respiratory rate also decreased after smelling the women's tears.

The researchers pinpointed a "chemical signal" in women's tears that can cause men to lose interest, reducing testosterone levels and brain activity associated with desire. "This is the first study to examine the relationship between tears and sexual desire."

The person in charge of this study said that in a relationship between men and women, it is best for women not to try to impress men with tears, "laughter can stimulate his desire more than tears."

Why men don't like women to be open

It is common to see men having mistresses or other affairs outside of their homes, but as long as their women do something to let them down, they are completely helpless. Why is this so? How did men come up with the idea that "the governor is allowed to set fires but the people are not allowed to light lamps"?

Men have a virgin complex

Even though the degree of sexual openness is much greater than before, men's "virgin complex" is still deeply ingrained in their bones. Many men will get upset when they find out their wives are not virgins after marriage, and this emotion will become an excuse for them to cheat in the future. Unlike women, women desire men with rich emotions so that they know how to love and take care of themselves. However, men hope that their women are a blank slate. In their opinion, if a woman has too rich love history, she must have made physical sacrifices. Their male chauvinism forces them to hope that the women they want are always silly, so that they can have a desire to conquer and a sense of accomplishment.