An accident caused her fiancé's temperament to change drastically. Should she break up or marry this familiar stranger?

She was the most miserable family member I had ever encountered in my 10 years of medical practice. At that time, I was still a junior doctor rotating to the neurosurgery department, and I occasionally heard nurses and senior doctors complain: "The family member of bed 7 is too difficult to communicate with. The doctor had explained everything during the ward rounds, but she kept ringing the bell at night to ask me to explain her condition."

The senior doctor comforted the nurse and said, "Thank you for your hard work. It's not easy for this lady. If you knew her experience, perhaps you would understand." During lunch, I said to the senior doctor, "Can you tell me about the experience of the family of bed 7?" The senior doctor slowly told me.

The family member of bed 7 is surnamed Liu. She was one of the first batch of college students after the resumption of the college entrance examination. At that time, high school students were extremely rare, and college students were even rarer. During college, she fell in love with the current bed 7. The two had a good relationship. After graduation, they got engaged and prepared to get married. Just two days before the wedding, her fiancé fell off his bicycle and injured his head. He was sent to the hospital and was diagnosed with cerebral hemorrhage. He underwent emergency surgery and finally woke up after lying in the intensive care unit for a month.

Although the person woke up, an accident happened. Her fiancé's temperament changed drastically. He was moody and even swore frequently. The doctor said: "Cerebral hemorrhage, frontal lobe damage, and personality changes are related to this."

The frontal lobe is an important part of the brain. It controls a person's emotions and personality. A healthy frontal lobe allows you to restrain yourself. If the frontal lobe is damaged, many personality traits will be lost and a person's personality will often change.

Because he was young, her fiancé recovered quickly. After rehabilitation training, his muscle strength gradually returned to normal. However, his temperament remained unchanged. He even hit her after a temper tantrum.

In that conservative era, engagement seemed to mean that there was no turning back, but she still married him. In other words, she married a familiar stranger.

A year after their marriage, their son was born. Although her husband was still moody and threw things and sweared as a common occurrence, she silently endured it all for the sake of her son and put all her energy on her son.

When her son was 17 years old, he went to the hospital for a long-term fever and was diagnosed with acute leukemia. Six months later, her son died. She lost her only spiritual support. Since then, her personality has changed a little and there is no smile on her face anymore.

The misfortunes did not end there. Two years later, her husband suddenly collapsed and was rushed to the hospital, where he was found to have brain stem hemorrhage. Although he was rescued quickly and underwent surgery immediately, the location of the brain stem was too special and her husband became a vegetable after the operation.

From then on, the sentence she asked most often every day was: "Doctor, his eyes are open, why is he ignoring me!" Although we explained it thousands of times, she still asked it over and over again, especially during the night shift, she always kept ringing the bell and asking all kinds of strange questions.

Since they have no children, she has to do all the nursing work by herself. She hardly sleeps. When she is sleepy, she leans on the quilt and takes a nap. She quickly gets up when her husband makes any noise. Her husband goes to the hospital several times a year due to lung infection, and he stays at home the rest of the time. This kind of life has lasted for 8 years.

After listening to the words of the senior doctor, I fell into deep thought. Why did such a tragic story happen? If you were the family member, what would you have chosen?