How can boys approach girls without being annoying? How can boys approach girls without being annoying?

We all know that before two people get to know each other, one of them usually takes the initiative to approach the other. In most cases, boys will approach girls they like. There are many ways to approach girls, and some of them will make girls very annoyed. So what are the ways that girls prefer boys to approach? Let's take a closer look!

What methods do girls prefer boys to use to chat up?

The first scenario (in real life): In this case, since it is a flirtation, both parties have definitely never met before. So as long as you are not too bad looking, well-dressed, and give off an overall clean and generous vibe, you will not be rejected by the girl too quickly and will not give you a chance to continue. Then (1) you can express your feelings to her directly (but there is a high chance that you will be rejected, unless you are very handsome, but it is not ruled out that some girls like to be more direct). (2) You can use other methods to reduce the girl's vigilance against you, so that she feels that you are not dangerous or have other intentions. For example, you can ask her if she has met someone before, and then describe her appearance to her (here you have to observe her a little, try to describe it in detail, and pay special attention to the little details of the girl. Because girls tend to be more fond of attentive boys)

(3) You can use some external forces, such as tools to seduce girls, puppies, kittens, and other super cute pets. Girls generally have no resistance to these pets, so you can quickly close the distance between you and the girl, and it will be easy to generate topics.

The second scenario (in the virtual network): In this case, the opening of the first chat is very important. The opening remarks cannot be clichéd, otherwise few girls will have the desire to chat with you.

(1) If possible, you can first take a look at her circle of friends to get a preliminary understanding of her life, interests, etc. This way, you won’t end up with unnecessary things when you chat with her.

(2) When greeting someone, don’t start by saying “Hi, pretty girl, can we meet? Are you there?” etc. This will generally not lead to a continuous flow. You can change the opening to a question, for example, “I heard that you can read minds, so I came here to ask you a few questions.” The girl will definitely be curious, so you have to take charge of the subsequent topics.

(3) When chatting with girls, remember not to fight for verbal pleasure. Since you are chatting with her, you are trying to make her happy and make her think you are interesting, so you must know how to respect her, respect her habits, life, world outlook, etc. Don't try to convince her when you are talking about a topic you don't agree with. If you do this, even if you win the conversation, you will lose her favor.

Men's pick-up skills

First of all, a man must look upright.

A man doesn't have to be handsome, but he must make women think that you are a good man, not a wretched man. So, put some effort into dressing appropriately and behaving appropriately.

Even if a man is a wolf, when he sees a beautiful woman, he must be a wolf in sheep's clothing.

Second, make women feel that you are sincere

The most difficult part about chatting up the opposite sex is to find a plausible reason without making the other person feel that your presence has a strong purpose.

Therefore, when men are chatting up a girl, they should not easily call her beautiful woman, as this will make the girl think that you are a pervert who is coveting her beauty.

Finally, keep your demeanor

Some men, seeing that they fail to strike up a conversation with a woman, start to slander the woman in various ways. Those harsh words may not necessarily attract the woman's attention, but will make everyone think that you are very vulgar.

So, even if a woman ignores your approach, you should still maintain your composure.

What should boys pay attention to when they approach others?

First, boys who are either very handsome or clean and fresh can easily win the favor of girls.

When you don't know a person at all, the most intuitive understanding is the appearance. If a boy is sloppy and calls it "inner beauty", I'm sorry, girls may not have the desire to explore your "inner beauty".

Although it may seem a bit tacky, most people still prefer beautiful things. It doesn’t matter if you’re not handsome, as long as you’re clean and tidy, it will leave a good impression on girls.

Second, boys who love to laugh, are bold, and even a little domineering are a plus

What is the most irresistible thing for humans? It is a brilliant smile. Boys who love to smile will not have bad luck.

When approaching a girl, be bold and don't be timid. Think carefully before you go. Timid boys make girls feel insecure. It would be even better if they are a little domineering.

For example, if they are having a pleasant chat and the boy wants to ask the girl out tomorrow, but the girl is a little hesitant, the boy can make the decision for the girl directly by choosing a safe public place and allowing the girl to bring her friends along. This way, the girl will not be able to refuse and will also feel that the boy is considerate.

Third, girls will not reject boys who behave like gentlemen and know their place.

Gentle boys are also very popular with girls. It takes time to become a gentleman. In daily life, pay more attention to cultivating your ability in this area. Once it becomes a habit, girls will have no way of rejecting a true gentleman.

Also, be careful about the degree of propriety. It is very important to know the degree of propriety when meeting someone for the first time. Don't make excessive demands or ask about a girl's privacy. It is not only impolite, but also makes the girl very disgusted.