How can weekend couples maintain their relationship longer? Do weekend couples need to contact each other every day?

We all know that after many couples get married, they live apart for various reasons and only get together every weekend. We call them weekend couples. Weekend couples are more difficult to maintain and often have emotional problems. So how can weekend couples last longer? Let's take a closer look!

What causes weekend couples

Most of the "weekend couples" are caused by work. Two people are in different areas, have good jobs, and cannot coordinate with each other, so they can only live separately and get together on weekends. This is out of helplessness in life.

How can couples maintain their relationship on weekends?

1. Husband and wife should always keep in touch

In the first few years after I got married, in order to make a living, I went to work in a city dozens of kilometers away from home. Although it was not far from home, due to the nature of my work, I could not go home every day and could only choose to go home once a week. In the beginning, I did experience the sweetness of "a short absence is better than a new marriage". However, with the birth of the child, my wife became busy, and the honeymoon was soon overwhelmed by the daily necessities of life.

But in order to keep our love fresh, we keep in touch all the time. My wife calls three or four times a day to report on what's happening at home, and we talk on the phone for a few minutes almost every night. This feeling may sound a bit "boring", but perhaps it is precisely because we maintain this high frequency of contact that makes us feel more at ease and comfortable with each other.

2. Communicate more when you encounter troubles

Of course, marriage is not only sweet, we often have upset moments. I remember when our child was just born, my wife became very irritable because of taking care of the child day and night. She wanted to lose her temper at any time, sometimes for the child, sometimes for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When encountering such a situation, I can only choose to communicate with her calmly. After all, I can't be with her most of the time, so I can only rely on communication and exchanges on the phone to solve those unpleasantness. I think only by truly understanding each other can we deal with this imperfect life as much as possible.

3. Spend more time with your loved ones on weekends

For every family like this, we can only live a normal life on weekends. Therefore, using the precious time of weekends to promote the relationship between husband and wife is also a very good way. Every weekend, reduce some unnecessary social engagements, stay at home as much as possible, or take your wife and children out for a walk, leaving more time for them. Perhaps companionship is the best gift for them.

The pros and cons of weekend couples

1. Benefits of weekend couples

Since "weekend couples" only see each other once a week, this reduces friction caused by trivial household matters and can lower the frequency of conflicts between couples.

Distance creates beauty. Weekend couples will miss each other more because they cannot see each other every day. When they meet, they will feel like a reunion. Therefore, a short separation can deepen the feelings between each other.

2. Disadvantages of weekend couples

Since two people cannot stay together for a long time, it is easy to encourage extramarital affairs.

High-risk groups for weekend couples

01.Highly educated and white-collar workers

This type of friends do not have a very traditional concept of marriage. They are not bound by the form of marriage. Most of them focus on work and career, and are eager to achieve greater success in their work or career. They do not want their lives to be disturbed by trivial matters and hope to have a private space of their own.

02. People with strong opinions

Such people have relatively open minds and do not want to change anyone, nor do they want to be changed by anyone. They have their own ideas and want to have independent private space.

03. People who are forced by life

Most of the "weekend couples" belong to this type. In order to have a better life in the future, they are forced to live apart due to work reasons and can only see each other once a week, which makes their life a little helpless.

04. People who are interested

This type of person naturally wants to live alone. In order to develop another relationship without being disturbed, they will choose to live apart so that they can have enough time and energy to fall in love with someone else.