How to break up gracefully? How to break up gracefully?

We all know that many couples are very sweet and happy when they are in love, but they tend to fall out when they break up, which is the most embarrassing scene in love. Breaking up means that the feelings between the two parties are no longer there. Although you can't be friends, you shouldn't be enemies either. So how can you break up decently? Let's take a closer look!

How to break up gracefully in a relationship

1. Stop worrying about who spends more money in a relationship

I have seen many posts online where some couples calculated all the money they had spent together after breaking up, and some boys forced girls to return all the gifts they received in cash.

The most impressive thing was that a boy calculated the cost of a date and asked the girl to pay half of it. This was really too undignified. At this moment, his stinginess, calculus, and pettiness were fully demonstrated.

2. Don’t keep any ties with each other. Break up completely.

Some people break up without thinking it through. They seem determined, but they can't bear to leave each other in their hearts. They can't help but care about each other when they hear news about the other party, and occasionally call to say hello. In fact, in most cases, this will cause some trouble to the other party.

3. Don’t talk about others behind their backs

Another classic and indecent behavior is to frantically criticize the other party after breaking up, wishing that everyone would think that the other party is bad, and wanting to convey to them the illusion that "it's a good thing we broke up." This is the most hurtful way to behave after breaking up.

4. Be generous in blessing your partner when they have a new relationship

Many people say that it is difficult to remain friends after breaking up. In fact, it is not difficult to understand. I also agree with this point of view. But I think that even if we can't be friends, there is no need to be strangers. Sometimes others will regard it as a sign that you can't let go.

How to show others that you have let go of this relationship? I think the best way is to say to him/her "I wish you happiness" when he/she has a new relationship. After I broke up with my ex, he/she found a girlfriend very quickly. When they stood in front of me, I mustered up the courage to smile and tell them that they were a perfect match and I was happy.

What does breaking up mean?

Breaking up means losing money

Love costs money, and it is normal for a man to bear most or even all of the love expenses. This has nothing to do with face or making a lot of money, but just to give her more protection from the moment they hold hands.

Breaking up means that all the investment in love has gone down the drain and cannot be recovered. No matter whether the money was earned easily or accumulated pennies, the moment the relationship is severed, it means that the previous investment has no effect.

There is no need for us to be unwilling to accept this and then vent our bad emotions on the woman. First of all, money can be earned. Secondly, when you are in a relationship, no one can guarantee 100% success. Asking the other party for money is not gentlemanly.

Breaking up means severing feelings

There is a saying that makes sense: I like you, it has nothing to do with you. It means that the emotional investment is voluntary, and whether to cherish it or not is the other party's business. No matter who proposes to break up, it means that this relationship is no longer a matter between two people.

Not to mention how sweet love is, just having each other in your heart and thinking about each other all the time has become an unforgettable habit. Cutting off the emotional contact all of a sudden, no one would believe that I am not disappointed.

Brother, if you are sad, hug yourself and calm down. Don't pester the other person again and again because that is someone you once loved and cared for with all your heart. Even if you can't be friends, you can't be enemies either.

Breaking up means a period of discomfort

If breaking up is only sad at the moment of separation, then being heartbroken requires repeated entanglement in reality and memories. After all, it has been a long time since we first met as strangers, then became acquainted, and then fell in love. It is unlikely to be forgotten all at once.

From breaking up to letting go, there are probably three stages: the period of sadness, the period of reflection and improvement, and the period of letting go. During this period, it is inevitable that you will miss each other too much and can't help but look for each other. After breaking up, be rational and control yourself.

Just like the beginning of a relationship, it takes time to get over a breakup. We are most likely to have relapses and conflicts at this stage. Therefore, a breakup reveals a person's character, and a decent separation is good for both parties.

What should you pay attention to when breaking up gracefully in a relationship?

Emotional Aspects

Recognize that love is just about trial and error, and finding the right person, and that you only need to give three-tenths of care to each other in love.

Money

Love does require necessary expenses, which can be used to eat and play with each other, just to understand whether the other person's character and values ​​are compatible.

Auxiliary aspects

Learn some knowledge about love, such as zodiac signs, and reflect on previous relationships to strive for success next time.