How to reject a same-sex confession?

Everyone has a same-sex friend, and for those same-sex friends who are close to each other, people will jokingly call them each other's gay friends. Most people are still heterosexual, and homosexuality is still a minority, but if one day your same-sex friend confesses to you, what should you do?

What to do if a same-sex friend confesses to you

If you can attract the love and affection of people of the same sex, it means that you must have certain qualities that attract others. If they don't like you or even feel annoyed by you, you can make it clear to them. After all, you can't let others think that the person they like also likes them. This will only lead to deeper misunderstandings, which will be troublesome to yourself and not good for others.

Moreover, liking someone has nothing to do with gender. What he likes is not your gender, but your personality, your temper, or your way of dealing with people. You can dislike someone, but don't look at others with strange eyes, don't say something bad to hurt the other person, you can refuse politely, just make it clear.

The word "like" has many meanings. It is not only used between men and women, between lovers, but also between friends. Maybe if you make it clear, you two may become best friends.

How to reject a same-sex confession

If you are sure that your sexual orientation is the opposite sex and feel that you cannot accept it, then you can tell him clearly and refuse tactfully without making a big deal about it.

If you are friends, you should explain that you can be just friends with him, but not any other relationship. You must make your attitude clear. If you are not friends, you should make it clear to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and troubles.

In addition, you should also reflect on whether your language, actions, etc. at certain times have caused misunderstandings to the other party.

How to strike a balance when getting along with friends

① Don’t bother your friends too much. Everyone has their own career and things to do. Not causing trouble and disturbing them too little is a way of supporting and understanding your friends.

② Keep in touch appropriately. Not disturbing does not mean not contacting for a long time. Not contacting and not hearing from each other will make people feel as if they don’t have such a friend. You can contact each other after a period of time, send a WeChat message, make a phone call, or go out for dinner together. Keep this friendship fresh.

③ When a friend is in trouble, you should take the initiative to show care and help, and within your ability, provide material support and spiritual comfort to help your friend overcome difficulties and solve problems. This is a true friend! Otherwise, you can only be considered a drinking buddy.

④ Don’t pry into the other person’s privacy too much. Everyone has their own little secrets. Keep a proper distance and don’t interfere too much in the other person’s life or dig into the other person’s secrets. Be careful about the degree.