What should girls do to prepare for their first time?

Every woman will experience her first night, but the prerequisite is that she must be fully prepared physically and mentally. Not only that, she must also take contraceptive measures. The first night should not be painful for women, but it will not be much better either. Therefore, men must do their best. Both the location and the atmosphere must make women feel romantic and happy. This can increase the sexual desire of both parties and allow them to relax to face this matter, making the first night both perfect and unforgettable.

What should girls do to prepare for their first time?

1. Choose a location

Choosing a location is very important. It should be a quiet and relatively orthodox place (at least there should be a bed. You can't let her have sex with you in a car, a fitting room or a park for the first time). After all, girls will feel a certain shyness when they have sex for the first time.

2. Atmosphere

You need to pay attention to the creation of atmosphere, to create a warm and romantic atmosphere, you can invite her to your home (or rent a room) for a candlelight dinner, music, lighting are very important. Everything will be easy with the help of alcohol!

3. Safety measures

When a girl has sex for the first time, necessary safety measures are very necessary, such as condoms, birth control pills, safe period contraception, etc., which can greatly reduce the risk of first pregnancy. Condoms not only prevent pregnancy, but also reduce the friction coefficient during first intercourse. It was the first night for both of them, and both men and women would feel a little pain when trying to have sex. Not to mention the pain women experience, the pain is also unpleasant when a man's glans hits a foreign object for the first time in a fully erect state and cannot be pushed in no matter what. It’s better to wear a condom. The pain was slightly relieved, and the embarrassment of ejaculating at the entrance after just one or two thrusts was avoided.

4. Sex Tools

Lubricant. The reason is that you may not know the girl's body well enough to arouse her sexual desire. Or some girls just have less water and dry skin. If it's too dry, it will cause pain to both of you. Even if it is just to make you feel more comfortable for the first time, applying some lubrication is a good choice.

Wet wipes. Most hotels don't have this. Its biggest function is to give the girl a sweet ending after sex. After you withdraw from the girl's body, don't be busy reminiscing about your lost virginity. Take out a wet tissue and gently wipe from the bottom of her buttocks near the perineum towards the vaginal opening. There may be a mixture of blood and love fluid there. Be gentle and use another one to clean it after wiping it. Try not to let a girl who has just experienced tearing pain jump out of bed and run to the bathroom.

Anti-inflammatory spray. If you want to get full marks for being considerate and attentive, you might as well prepare some Anduofu spray for anti-inflammatory purposes. If the girl feels very painful, she can spray a little near the vaginal opening. Relief point.

5. Foreplay

For a girl's first time, foreplay is absolutely important. It is related to the girl's psychological feelings for the first time and can also reduce the pain! When you are in a place with a good atmosphere, you can kiss his lips first, then his neck. Then try to touch his body, and then undress.

6. Sex Positions

When two people first fall in love, they usually choose the traditional position of man on top and woman on bottom. This is convenient for concealing the inner uneasiness and shyness when suddenly facing each other naked. At the same time, for two people who have just had sexual contact, this position facilitates eye contact and makes it easier to reach orgasm.

What common sense does female contraception include?

1. IUD: The first choice of contraceptive measures for married women

IUD is an effective, reversible and low-cost contraceptive method. Currently 156 million women worldwide use intrauterine devices. Millions of women in our country have IUDs inserted every year. Although this method of contraception has undergone years of development, it still has not solved the problem of side effects such as bleeding and pain after use. Therefore, it is very necessary to consult your doctor about relevant issues before having an IUD inserted.

1. Women under the age of 25 are not suitable for IUD insertion. Because their risk of failure using this contraceptive method is 5.9 times that of women over 35 years old. At the same time, the IUD expulsion rate is significantly higher than that of women over 25 years old.

2. Women with untreated or uncured gynecological inflammation are not suitable for IUD insertion. Since this point is not strictly restricted, some women with gynecological inflammation also hastily have IUDs inserted. As a result, they either experience dysmenorrhea or continuous bleeding.

2. Before childbirth: It is best to use condoms

For women who plan not to have children for a long time after marriage, it is better to use condoms instead of birth control pills. This way, once a couple wants to have a child, they will have more flexibility in managing their time.

What are the methods of contraception after the event?

1. Take emergency contraceptive pills

If you accidentally ejaculate inside someone and you don't really want a child, taking emergency contraceptive pills is a better option. Emergency contraceptive pills, also known as emergency contraceptive pills, are divided into progestin-only and anti-progestin. Although this emergency contraceptive pill has few side effects, it cannot be relied upon solely for contraception. Contraceptive pills should not be used frequently, as this is very harmful to the body and can cause great harm to the body. Try to avoid taking them as much as possible. If emergency contraception fails to work, the chance of fetal malformation is very high, so be cautious before using it.

2. Intrauterine device

As a relatively popular contraceptive method in our country, the IUD is placed in the uterus. It must be placed within 7 days after unprotected intercourse. If it is placed within 5 days, the effect is more reliable. This method has been shown to be effective after a large amount of data research. If you do not want to keep it in for a long time, you can take it out after your menstrual period comes. Its contraceptive principle is mainly to prevent the fertilized egg from implanting in the endometrium.