How painful was the first time?

The first time is crucial for women. It is a huge experience and test both psychologically and physically. The main reason is that it is very painful the first time, and due to lack of experience, people are often afraid and nervous. In fact, if you are mentally prepared for the first time, slowly experience the feelings, relieve tension, the pain will also be reduced. So, how painful is it for a woman to have sex for the first time?

The topic of "first time" always attracts a lot of attention in the blush discussion area. Every woman who wants to try sex for the first time will secretly ask the editor a question, which is "How painful is the first time?"

To be honest, this kind of thing can only be understood but not explained. Besides, everyone's physique is different, and the thickness and length of sexual partners vary. It is impossible to summarize the results and tell curious girls!

But after careful investigation, the editor has found the most realistic answers, which can be roughly divided into three categories. Let's take a look at what everyone says about the first time!

The group that is in so much pain that they curse:

It hurts more than menstrual cramps, probably only second to pregnancy! It's the kind of pain that seems to stretch the wound open, and you scream as soon as it enters.

The first time I was very nervous and my partner's penis was very big, so it was very painful, like having an orange stuck in your nostrils.

I remember at the beginning I kept replaying in my head the words "relax, relax" but the moment I entered it I really felt like I was banging my head against a concrete wall, with a completely hideous face and clenched fists.

The pain was so intense that I cursed out a bunch of dirty words and immediately kicked my boyfriend away. I felt a very strong sense of being torn apart. After trying for a long time, I finally succeeded.

I didn't expect the pain to come and I succeeded:

Although it still hurts a bit, it's not as exaggerated as everyone says. It's probably just as painful as getting an injection. Seriously, it's more painful than menstrual cramps!!

I felt pain when I first pushed in, and my muscles tensed up, but then I slowly relaxed and it didn't hurt anymore!

The first time it unexpectedly didn’t hurt, probably because my boyfriend had experience before and was very patient and took the time to caress me.

Before I started, I drank some wine to give myself courage and relax. There was only some uncomfortable pain, but it was bearable.

Eat the sugar cane pie upside down:

I was very nervous at the beginning because it was the first time for both of us, and it was really painful at first, but luckily my boyfriend was very understanding, and after slowing down, it became smoother and smoother (and more and more comfortable), and it felt like I was overcoming one level after another.

My first foreplay was super long (actually a bit unbearable), but later I found that it seemed to be quite useful, because it didn't hurt too much, just a feeling of having something extra down there, and then I started to feel good!

It only hurt for a little while, probably because although I didn't reach home plate before, I had made more progress in the previous few bases, so when I officially took up the gun to go into battle, I only felt the pain like kicking the table leg, and then I felt comfortable all the way to climax!

After reading these messages, you can actually find that physiological and psychological conditions affect the degree of pain in the first sexual experience. Regardless of whether it hurts or not, all women agree that the attitude of the male partner can effectively relieve the pain. If the foreplay can be done patiently and knows how to proceed step by step, it can reduce the tension and pain of the woman's first time.

I personally think that you will know whether it hurts or not after you actually go on the field. Don't worry about this for now. Have a drink before going on stage and remind yourself to relax. Even if the first time is not perfect, there will be many opportunities to make up for it later. Sex is something that only practice makes perfect.