What should girls do if they have a virgin complex?

We all know that girls have a hymen before having sexual intercourse. In ancient times, people would apply acupuncture to observe whether a woman had committed misconduct before marriage. Therefore, the older generation tends to have more traditional ideas. There will be a virgin complex. In fact, everyone who wants to get married hopes that his wife is a clean virgin. But besides men, many women also have a virgin complex. So what should women do if they have a virgin complex?

Because there are better contraceptive methods, remaining a virgin has lost most of its protective significance for women. Remaining a virgin can even be harmful. You might have had the opportunity to find out if the man has any unspeakable secrets (such as male sexual dysfunction), and you would have lost the opportunity for deeper communication. Sexual behavior can promote greater mutual trust between each other, and can also discover the other person's deepest self (whether you can pay more attention to the other person's feelings, understand and care for each other during sex). Giving up the enjoyment of the beauty of life and insisting on maintaining your virginity also hurts another person. He will feel that he is not loved enough and is not trusted.

The significance of the virgin complex lies mostly in perfectionists. Give the best chastity to the best person, and vice versa, she demands the same from the other party. In addition to sex, there are often strict standards and requirements in other aspects, which will bring great obstacles to relations between the sexes. We have endowed sex with too much moral significance (mainstream society preaches that pornography is sinful). If we could narrow this scope, sex between lovers would be beautiful as long as they love each other.

Please believe in your parents' teachings, please believe in China's moral standards, and don't lose a girl's most precious thing easily due to momentary impulse and temptation. In fact, those who shout on the Internet that they don't care about the past and virginity are all lies. Some of these people are married, and they want to liberate your thoughts for their satisfaction. Some are girls who have lost their hymen, and they are longing for and fantasizing that society and men will forgive them for their past.

Non-virgins, even if you give me 10,000 reasons, all of which are very fancy, and refute me, you can only refute the post. You can't change the idea that "non-virgins are definitely not worth marrying" that is deeply rooted in men's minds.